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There is an opinion that daughters are more drawn to fathers, and boys to mothers. However, this statement can not be considered the only true one. At first, child, reaching a certain age, to strive for independence and the independent choice of "friends" can be regarded as one of the stages of emotional development. Consider the situation when child chooses his favorite father. Analyze one day from the life of your family. Likely, child spend most of your time with mom. And communication with the pope is limited to evening meetings or as it often happens, only on weekends. Therefore, it is quite possible that child, demanding papa, just wants to make up for the lack of communication. But this is only one of the options. Also, each parent should pay attention to the manner of communication with the child. Perhaps the pope, who sees his beloved child less often and, accordingly, bored, indulges the baby and allows everything to him. Then there is nothing surprising in that child prefers the easy-going daddy. In contrast, a strict mother who strives to raise elementary rules of behavior in the child and often repeats the words most unloved by the children - "can not," "do not touch," "do not go" ... Besides, it is often difficult for young children to build relationships simultaneously with two people, even if they are favorite parents. There are a number of reasons why some children prefer fathers. For example, a physically strong dad has a significant advantage over the weak sex, to which the mother refers. He is able to wear a favorite child on his shoulders, roll on his back, toss up, playing all kinds of "airplanes" and "locomotives." That is, the formula is simple: who plays with the child more cheerfully, the baby meets with delight.