How to teach a teenager to communicate with peers
How to teach a teenager to communicate with peers
The personal environment of the teenager is a very important factor for him. If you have problems communicating with your peers, you need to help the child to establish relationships.
Instructions
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First, you need to find out the reason whythe child has no friends, why there are conflict situations, or maybe the guys just do not perceive your teenager and recorded him in an outcast. Unobtrusively, openly talk with the child, finding out the reason, act on the situation. Help develop in the right direction. Determine what qualities are missing your teenager, confidence, independence and so on. Help the child to work on strengthening the necessary qualities.
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Help the child, come closer to the interestscompany in which he wants to be a teenager. If the guys are engaged in photography, music, sports, other hobbies, write the child to the relevant classes. Do not interfere if a teenager wants to look like friends and for this you have to make an intricate hairstyle and buy new jeans.
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If a teenager, due to his impulsiveness,quarreled with a friend and decided to break off relations, stop him. Ask to tell you the cause of the conflict, together analyze the situation, perhaps the conflict is not so serious as to alienate friends from oneself. Teach your child to appreciate people, forgive, give a second chance.
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If a teenager is too shy, it's hard for himto converge with people, then it is necessary to work on his self-confidence. Help the child look more attractive, a new hairstyle, stylish things, a teenager should look well-groomed and neat and like first of all yourself. Send it to the fitness, in the grade hall, the self-confidence will add a good fit figure. Also, special trainings or courses that develop sociability and fight shyness will help.
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All people are too different and strive to pleaseit's impossible for everyone to be interesting for everyone. Encourage the teenager to be himself and to love himself as he is. People do not like hypocrisy and pretense. When a child perceives himself, he will necessarily attract friends who have similar interests.
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To establish a child's ability to communicate,parents need to give him time every day and talk about everything in the world. Ask questions, encourage the child to talk more, teach him to support the conversation, find new topics for conversation.
