Tip 1: How to revive a relationship
Tip 1: How to revive a relationship
Romance candy-bouquet period graduallyvolatilizes, and long established relationships often bring already less vivid emotions. Such a conversion is normal, but you should not slide into a routine. Try to revive the relationship.
Instructions
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Earlier, going on dates, you could spend hoursstand in front of a mirror, choosing an outfit, and, meeting, walking in the most beautiful parks and sitting at the tables in the original coffee shops? If now, when you live together, most of your life passes through the walls of an apartment modestly arranged by your grandmother yet, no wonder that you will sometimes feel how your life lacks colors. Make your home such that you would like to spend time there. Do not necessarily buy expensive furniture sets, if it was not part of your plans. Paste the wallpaper, change the curtains, throw an original tablecloth on the table, and your apartment will be transformed. Think about the bed - because there you not only sleep, but indulge in violent passion. Make a canopy, buy a set of luxury bed linen. In a beautiful setting, life will seem brighter.
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Going to work, you put on a clean andbeautiful clothes, make a hairdo, impose makeup, and when you come back, you get into the old faded sweater and shorts a couple of sizes larger. It turns out that you show off yourselves in all its glory to colleagues and friends, and before the spouse you appear in a not very presentable form. There are many beautiful and comfortable clothes. And from time to time you can arrange role-playing games, dressing for a loved one stewardess or a strict boss.
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At the beginning of the relationship, lovers tryto please each other about and without it, give gifts and sometimes do reckless, but romantic acts. Drawing under the window on the asphalt of love messages or spending half of the family budget on flowers is optional, but take in the habit of pleasing your loved one not only on New Year's and his birthday. Order him in the office the delivery of your favorite dish, write down a song for him and send it to him if you think that singing serenades under the window is not serious. Trifles, like a tie, fragrant shower gel or keyring on the keys will not make you spend a lot of money, but such attention will be pleasant to your half.
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Revive the fresh relationship will help the jointTrip. It does not matter where you go - to an expensive resort or to the nearest forest with a tent. The main thing is that you are distracted from work and home routine, which took you so much time, and dedicate it to each other. Planning also work together: choose a hotel, develop the best route, look for sights that are definitely worth a visit. In anticipation of the trip, you will again feel excited lovers.
Tip 2: How to be if the relationship has reached a dead end
Communication with a loved one is not absolutelysmooth and smooth. Sooner or later, the idyll in the relationship ends, and then the pair faces a choice problem: how to live on. Perhaps, there is still the opportunity to revive the feelings, but what if the relationship has reached a dead end?
You will need
- - time;
- - self-control.
Instructions
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The main rule in this case is not to panic and not to make harsh decisions. Weigh all the pros and cons and only then start a serious conversation (if you really want it).
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First, try to take for grantedthe fact that in any case and, as they say, under any scenario life continues. It does not matter what you decide: run away or continue your relationship. Believe yourself that a new day is a new life, so do not cry for the lost, but, on the contrary, open yourself to the world around you. It is possible that the happiest time awaits you ahead.
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As a rule, from a cove-barrack, relations are not at a dead endcome. Try to get to the bottom of the problem and, maybe, it will be solved with little blood. If it seems to you that the feelings have faded away (psychologists note such a critical period in couples who have lived with each other for 1,5, 3 and 7 years, and this is absolutely normal), try for a while to live separately from each other (of course, by mutual agreement ). First you will like freedom, but in two weeks - a month you will already have something (more precisely, someone) not enough ...
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You still decided to part? Try to keep friendly relations, because some time ago this person was close to you. Who, except him, can understand you best, give good advice, help out or just listen? Therefore, you should not part with your enemies. The earth is round, and, perhaps, you will come in handy more than once.
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Perhaps your relationship is at an impasse because ofroutine. Try to diversify your life, having arranged a joint trip, taking up a common cause, etc. Once you are with each other in a non-standard situation for both of them, you will experience new sensations, look at each other with different eyes and, perhaps, you will understand how important a person is to you, who will be nearby.
