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Deciding to have a baby, not all youngparents understand the responsibility of this step. The impression is that in the child they see not the toy that has already appeared in all friends and "I want the same", or at least give birth only because it is so. Not everyone at once has the notion of how difficult and responsible work is to raise a child, and it will not only be necessary to carry out, but also try not to make mistakes.

The future of the child depends oneducation will give him parents. And at the age of up to three years there is just the formation of personality, and a responsible attitude to the upbringing of the child may help you get along without unnecessary problems in the future.

If the financial capabilities of the family allowyoung mother does not work, most often she would prefer to deal with the child herself, to give him upbringing in accordance with their own concepts. Another option - when a woman decided that by earning money, she could do more useful for the child. If you can not leave the baby with close relatives, the parents try to find a nanny who could spend with the child while parents are working.

Despite the fact that the offers of this serviceset, finding a good responsible person is not so easy. Even when these qualities are at an altitude, parents need to think about the fact that an early age is important for the formation of a child's personality, and an outsider, in general, will influence him. Working parents will have much less time to take part in the development of the child's character. No matter how carefully the selection of domestic staff was conducted, the needs and interests of the child should be more based on.

Ask yourself, what qualities would youI wanted to develop a child? An active and restless child is suitable for a person who can develop a sense of purpose and perseverance in him. Too strict a nanny will keep the child in one place when he wants to play, and this is not very good for his psyche. That the child does not become closed, unsociable, and in behavior there was no aggression, the nurse should choose understanding and attentive. On the contrary, a quiet baby is more suitable for a strict nanny, which will teach him to be more demanding of himself.

If the teacher and pupil coincidetemperament and biorhythms, it will be wonderful. In this version, the talent of the child and his opportunities will be directed in the right direction, and with proper upbringing, a serious, intelligent, responsible person will grow up from the baby.