Raising a happy child
Raising a happy child
In order for a child to be happy, it is necessary to love him. But often it happens that we, adults, should be able to show and correctly give their love to children.
Instructions
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When a child appears in your room orjust to suit you, with all your appearance show that you are happy to see him. Try to smile, not only with your lips, but also with your eyes. Call the child by name, because all children like it very much. If you doubt why all this is necessary, imagine how pleased you would be if an important person for you always rejoiced when he saw you.
2
Teach your child independence. Believe me, it's okay when the child is left to himself. There are some limits of communication between children and adults, when adults need to leave for some reason. Therefore, the child must be able to play with himself. In this there is an excellent plus - the child, playing with himself, develops his imagination and his imagination. But you should choose the activity that the child will be doing in your absence. Need I say that the TV and computer are not the best option? For example, teach him to love drawing. You can teach gradually: first give him the fruit to work, that is, throw the idea, then just watch his drawing, and after that - give him the assignment and leave, saying that you will come and guess what is depicted in his drawing.
3
Limit the child access to the media. The child is at the very age when his worldview is formed, and in many media the information is mostly negative. Show him only good programs. Of course, cartoons will be priority.
4
Let the child understand that it is much more important thanyour job. To do this, it is enough to smile at the child when doing some work in the house, stroking him, asking about something and listening to the answers. It is much better, safer and more useful to listen to a child than to say to him: "Leave me alone, I'm busy!". We, adults, are much more mobile in terms of concentration and attention.
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It is necessary to teach the child some rules,which will help maintain a healthy atmosphere and order in the house. Determine when to sleep, walk, play, do homework, eat and much more. Do not forbid the child to do what is natural for him, but it is unpleasant for you. For example, to run or jump. The child needs it.
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Teach your child. Do not give 100 percent of the kindergarten or school education, but actively participate in it: fill in the blanks, correct, save, help out and help him. In addition, it is important to walk with him on sections, so that he eventually determines what he likes.
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Be an example for your children. Children always follow you and imitate you. If you tell them one thing and do something else, you will teach the child hypocrisy.