Tip 1: Why respect the elders
Tip 1: Why respect the elders
"And why should I respect them ?!"- a hot-tempered teenager, driven by resentment or disappointment. Nevertheless, respect for the representatives of the older generation is an integral part of the culture of various peoples, sometimes quite different in their customs and beliefs.
Life Start
No matter how inclined the representatives of the younggeneration to deny the merits of the elders, one can not but recognize that it is the previous generation that creates the basis for the subsequent generations. This is the material values, and the cultural environment, and traditions, preserved and multiplied by the older generation. It happens that children are unhappy with the achievements of their parents and are inclined to reproach them for not working there and not being able to reach the level of life that children consider worthy of themselves. But this is wrong! The older generations lived their lives the way they thought necessary and possible, provided their children with a certain "launching pad" for development, training, character formation and other personal qualities. Even if a young man at an early age is able to earn more than his father or mother, then the opportunities for this were to a large extent provided by his parents, and this is worthy of respect. Similarly, the young people's statements about previous generations about the established social system are also unfair , economic and political situation of the country as a whole. The older generation acted as it could in the proposed historical circumstances, and without their efforts there would not be a "starting point" for the activities of generations of the subsequent. And for this it is worthy to respect people born on 20, 40 and more years earlier!An experience
They say that the smart learn from other people's mistakes, andstupid - on their own. The moral teachings and instructions that young people tend to dismiss are more often than not the attempt of the older generation to transfer their life experiences to children. Yes, the realities of their lives differed in many respects from the current ones, but now came "other times", but human nature for millennia has changed very little. So why not heed the conclusions made by fathers and mothers, grandmothers and grandfathers on the basis of their personal life experience? After all, no matter how the realities of life have changed, love remains love, and enmity - enmity. Man is driven by all the same weaknesses, passions and aspirations that many years ago: everyone wants stability, love and peace. People who have lived for several decades already know how to recognize the signs by which they can easily identify treason and betrayal, distinguish true feelings from hypocrisy. They have learned from their own experience what can result from this or that sequence of actions. Therefore, young, perhaps, it is not necessary with such perseverance to strive to stuff their own cones. After all, you can try to avoid trouble, showing respect and attention to the experience of previous generations.Tip 2: What you need to educate
Moms and dads want to see in their child onlygood qualities. But it depends in many ways on the parents themselves. Parenting plays a big role in the life of the baby. It depends on him how much he will trust his mother and father; how much will love animals, study; whether he will have friends and what he will be by nature. Perhaps he will be a bully, but intelligent and loving. Or, conversely, it will be quiet and calm, but in his soul - a whole storm of emotions.
Instructions
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There is an opinion that for an excellent childhood a childneed chess, skis and a cat with a dog. These items will help him become intelligent, athletic, loving and compassionate. But without the help of the parents here can not do.
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For good parenting, parents need patience. To scold try only for the cause, and not for every little misdemeanor. A spilled tea on the table or a cat smeared with sour cream is not a reason for a big scandal. The child thus knows the world. If you do not like his actions, calmly explain it to him. Say that you are upset that all the sour cream is eaten by a cat, and you will not get anything with it.
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Do not tell the child when you say "forever you"or "you again". Your child is always good, just now he was a little guilty. That's why you say that today he is to blame for that and his present deed did not please you at all.
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Do not encourage the child's fears. Do not call him "coward", and, moreover, do not tease him and do not frighten him with what he fears. Try to treat calmly to his fears, then they themselves will be lost.
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Do not criticize other people with your child. Thus, your baby will respect older and unfamiliar people. And you will never hear a bad word from him in your address.
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When your child returns from a walk or from school, always meet him at home. So he will be sure that you are happy with him even when he was guilty of something.
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At the weekend, do "days without comment." It's a shame if your family walk is spoiled by constant comments to your child. On such days, not only the child, but you yourself will rest from their reproaches.
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Every morning, start happily. Tell your child a "good morning" every day, even if he wakes up in a bad mood. Do not expect an answer from him, do not start a new day with abuse.
Tip 3: What place does the family have?
From time immemorial, the family was considered the most important "cell"society. In families, children were born and brought up, folk traditions and customs were preserved. In families, children were taught a system of values, taught to respect the elders, and work. Each child had an example of parents before his eyes and involuntarily began to imitate them. Now the institution of the family for a variety of reasons is going through hard times. What place does the family have in the current Russian society?
Instructions
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Despite the fundamental changes,What happened in the state and public life of Russia over the past decades, the most important function of the family is still the reproductive one. For the elementary reproduction of the population, it is necessary that the families have an average of 2-3 children. However, in the period following the collapse of the USSR (the so-called epoch of "mad 90s"), the birth rate has sharply decreased. The impoverishment of millions of Russians, acute economic problems, insecurity in the future, persistently introduced a cult of money, profit at any cost - all this has led to the fact that many people have lost their family values and procreation. Only recently, thanks to a number of measures to stimulate the birth rate (in particular, the payment of maternity capital for the 2nd, 3rd, etc. child), the population of Russia again began to grow.
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The second important function of the family iseducational. Although the times when the parents' word was a law for children, have long been in the past, the role of the father and mother in the formation of personality is still undeniable. The family in this regard can not be fully replaced by any other structure, neither state nor public. However, due to a number of factors - a large number of single-parent families, a diminishing role for men, excessive employment of many parents, which is why they can not give enough time and attention to children, etc., educational function is often not always performed and not fully implemented .
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The economic and economic function of the family includesin itself the general management of the family budget, economy, the organization of leisure. It is very important for the mutual assistance of family members, the instruction to work children from early childhood, the formation of their reasonable needs, tastes, habits. Of course, for this, parents should behave properly, that is, do not use obscene words in their communication, be thankful.
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Do not forget about the recovery(recreational) function of the family. It is also very important. The family for each of its members should be the place where a benevolent, sensitive atmosphere will reign, where they will always help, listen, encourage, give good advice. In such an environment, you can quickly get rid of psychological fatigue, feel confident in yourself, in your abilities and capabilities.
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Finally, the family fulfills a patriotic function. It is in families that little Russian citizens learn about their Motherland, learn to love and appreciate it.
