Tip 1: How to escape punishment

Tip 1: How to escape punishment


We all commit misconduct in life, because of whichwe suffer ourselves and we deliver difficulties to others. Dostoevsky created a whole book, describing the crime and punishment of a young student. If you do not allow fear to capture your soul, in many cases you can eliminate the consequences of the error and get rid of the possible punishment.



Fear of punishment paralyzes the will


Instructions


1


Recognize your guilt. Do it yourself before yourself. If you are a believer, admit guilt to God. It is important to calm down and not look for excuses. What has happened is already in the past. You do not have to put your whole life to death. It is better to think about what conclusions will allow to prevent such in the future. We must rise and go on. In life, more benefits from a man who seeks to build, not self-destruction.


2


Correct all that is possible. Your action or inaction has entailed certain consequences. Think about what you can immediately fix. Smashed the cup - go and buy a new one. No money - write a note to the cup owner that you will buy it a little later. The main thing is that you immediately start building a new life.


3


Make a list of what you've fixed. Add points that do not know how to fix it. The list is very important. Looking at it, you gain confidence in your abilities. Not all the consequences you can eliminate yourself. Something can not be fixed at all. Enter all these points in a separate section of your list, with the necessary explanations.


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Show the list to someone who can punish you. This is the most difficult step. But you have already done so much that there is nowhere to retreat. Be resolute. In life, people are often forgiven for recognizing guilt and beginning to improve. You have already done everything, do not stop now.



Tip 2: Why do many leave the scene of an accident?


According to the statistics of the State Traffic Safety Inspectorate in 2013, the numberdrivers who left the scene, greatly increased. Increasingly, after accidents, female drivers are hiding. The reason for this is the shock carried by the offender.



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Road transport has long become necessarya means of transportation and a source of constant stress for both pedestrians and drivers. Road conflicts are increasingly characterized by cynical brutality, rudeness and, alas, the irresponsibility of the guilty party. Recently, news has been constantly reported on the drivers who fled the scene of accidents, abandoned without the help of people who were injured through their fault. What drives the driver from the place of the tragedy, what makes the doomed victims doomed to die?

Drivers experience shock, fear and guilt

In the opinion of practicing psychologists, theseemotions and feelings encourage most drivers to leave the place of the road accidents they have committed. The shock of the incident is so strong that self-defense mechanisms work in the psyche. The brain simply refuses to perceive what happened as a fact, ignores the reality, so that the person is not crushed by the strongest shock, especially if the driver has suffered or killed people. Often it looks like indifference or cruelty. But people who are able to kill quietly, in fact, a little. The guilty driver experiences a strong sense of guilt, mixed with fear, does not believe that what happened happened to him. It seems to the person that if he goes further, everything that happens will become just an ordinary incident in which someone else is to blame, but he does not have to no relation. Awareness comes much later when the driver is already in a position to accept what happened and take responsibility. Psychologists and traffic police officials state that drivers guilty of accidents behave differently. Someone stops and renders help. Someone is hiding and hopes that they will catch him and punish him. Unfortunately, there are those who hope to escape punishment even after realizing the tragedy.

Drivers hope to escape responsibility

The main motive of the driver who is trying toAvoid responsibility for injury or death of people, is the instinct of self-preservation. He strives to save himself, to do everything to make life the same as before. A strong fear of a court, prison and censure of society forces a person to hide or to try to avoid punishment in all possible ways. Such people suffer little about the injured and, as a rule, try not to think. But the human psyche is arranged so that the conscience sooner or later begins to remind of the committed, or consciously, either problems and illnesses. So even avoiding a quick punishment motorist will meet him at some turn of his own life road.