How to leave painlessly
How to leave painlessly
Painless separation is possible, if feelingsno, the relationship completely exhausted itself and their further development is impossible. In all other cases parting is not easy, but in life there is nothing that can not be experienced.
Instructions
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If you understand that your relationship does not existfuture, feelings become dull, it will be quite easy to part. You will have to make a final decision and honestly admit that you are not ready to continue the relationship or to continue living together.
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After the decision is made, do not delay the parting. The sooner it happens, the less you will be tormented by unpleasant thoughts about the inevitable end of your relationship.
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Take off a separate living space or changecohabitation. If you lived together, the best option for parting is separation. It is impossible to sever the relationship without pain, living under one roof.
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Take care of yourself. Parting - it's time to realize your own plans, which during joint living or long-term relationships were still plans. Cultivate, change the image, sign up for a gym or fitness club, get a second, third education.
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Career. If you did not work during your life together, the parting will contribute to your own realization. In addition, daily employment will allow you not to be tormented by thoughts of the past and become completely financially independent person.
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Do not sit in four walls. Meet with friends, communicate. Parting is not the end of life, but only its new turn. It depends on you how it will be: gray and dull or bright, full of new meetings, impressions.
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Avoid places where you can meet. It is a good idea to remain friends, but it is better to postpone your friendship for later, when there will be a sufficient period of time for painless meetings. Only after a while you will be able to communicate as friends, not remembering mutual insults and not tormenting each other with reproaches.
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Do not rush to start a new romance. Think carefully about what prevented you from maintaining your previous relationship. This will help you not make mistakes. Having changed, you will receive a ticket to a happy life with full relations, which you will cherish and which will completely suit you.