How to get acquainted by phone
How to get acquainted by phone
Not all people can easily support the conversation incompany or come to get acquainted with someone on the street. Some do not have time for entertainment or personal acquaintances. Basically, it's about guys, because they usually show initiative in communicating with girls. Shy, closed and too busy young people still need new acquaintances and interesting conversations. For such children it is useful to learn to get acquainted by phone.
Instructions
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You can get a phone number from friends orcolleagues, while asking in advance about a person. It's also quite easy to find out the mobile phone number from the numerous social networks where you can learn in detail about the hobbies and interests of the site. Those who believe in a miracle, you can dial at random, although something worth of this is unlikely to happen.
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It is important to realize that a telephone acquaintance isnot the best way to start a relationship. Still, to communicate by phone, as well as to communicate on the Internet, the current youth, and older people are wary. It is advisable to simply intrigue the interlocutor on the phone and arrange a personal meeting. Those. a phone call should be perceived as the first step to an intimate acquaintance.
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When a phone number is already received, it is importantdetermine the purpose of the call. If someone liked a young man or a girl at a party or a general company, but it did not come to a close acquaintance, it can be arranged by phone. At the same time, it is necessary to remind you where the previous meeting took place, to introduce yourself and in case of interest on the other end of the wire to appoint a date. When the number is received from friends or acquaintances, it is necessary to say this and express an interest in the object. If a person is not familiar with the interlocutor at all, you can choose from several options for communication: either "made a mistake with the number" or play the role of a secret admirer until the new acquaintance himself offers to see you, or tell the truth about where the information about the person comes from, and about the desire to get to know him. Most often the truthful version turns out to be the simplest and most effective.
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Important in communicating on the phone is a pleasanttimbre of voice and correct speech. To not immediately frighten off the interlocutor, it is desirable in the absence of these skills to work well on their development. This can be done with the help of a voice recorder and assessing your speech from outside or in professional classes with teachers in speech technology. Naturally, do not be rude, foul language and abound parasitic words when meeting on the phone.
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When "Hello" is on the other end of the tube, it's importantdo not falter and start a conversation as confidently as possible. It is desirable to immediately name the name and reason for the call. Girls like open guys, so lying and dodging, coming up with something grand, not necessary. In the process of talking, the person should talk more to feel self-interest. After answering the standard questions "What do you do?", "Where do you study?" etc. you can take advantage of information from social networks or from acquaintances. For example, talk about the girl's favorite actor or genre in the movie, about the last concert of your favorite band or a trip abroad.
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If the interlocutor easily goes on contact or found outcalling and glad to call, you can immediately ask about a personal meeting. Those who hesitate to immediately move to active action, you can at the end of the conversation to clarify the possibility to call again. Most likely, the more initiative girl herself will offer to meet than save or simply accelerate the development of the situation. To increase the chances of success, it is possible as if to propose holding a meeting at an interesting and crowded event: "Tomorrow night on the embankment a massive launch of sky lanterns, you do not want to go?" or "I have an extra ticket for the presentation of the album, will you compose the company?".
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If in the process of telephone conversation behonest, open and unobtrusive, it is likely that acquaintance will bring the desired results. Each person is interesting in his own way, you just need to give your strengths to the interlocutor. Being yourself and respecting others is one of the main personal qualities in the sphere of relations.