Do I need to strive for more money?
Do I need to strive for more money?
By common saying, there is not much money. And, indeed, almost all of them are not enough. Moreover, not enough for wealthy people for the needs, which can appear literally from the air, and poor people on the most essential. Only a few are really satisfied with their level of well-being. In society, a tendency is observed: the more income, the more the needs grow.
If I were given a million?
Almost every one of us, looking at the life of millionaires,dreamed about how life would have formed if a million dollars had suddenly appeared on our bank account. Usually the imagination draws bright prospects: go travel, change the type of activity, buy real estate, start living beautifully, etc. It seems that all problems will be solved by the wave of a magic wand, and happiness, at last, will approach us closely.
However, we wonder whether it is possible to consider these iridescentpictures objective? According to statistics, people who got rich suddenly with lottery or in other ways, in most cases, faced serious problems in life. Most of the "lucky ones" broke up families for several years, alcoholism and other addictions arose, and some died within 2-3 years. Paradoxically, many have managed not only to spend a fortune, but also to accumulate large debts. And only a small percentage of people who received a large amount of money could have said that their lives have changed for the better. And we dream of a million .... Why does this happen?
The inner strength for possessing big money
Big money is a huge resource thatRequires responsibility to dispose of them. This can be compared to a large ship. And can we manage it? Are we able to do this? If our ability to manage a powerful system is not enough, then the system begins to control us. And most often it can end tragically, because we are defenseless against a lot of new factors that have appeared.
And how about a million? This is a huge resource. It is necessary to have inner strength to curb this energy and to remain the master of the situation. Otherwise, if the rider does not restrain the horse, he will be thrown to the ground. Pay attention to the fact that all people who have a lot of money and whose lives do not collapse from it, have a very weighed and detached attitude to their money. Money does not enslave them.
The Dangers of Owning Big Money
If a person does not have enough inner strength to not become a slave of this resource, then in his life numerous circumstances will break into which he will be completely helpless.
First, his own desires and vices,Which will be satisfied and develop with the help of money, and then start to manage the person and will be stronger than him. It can be not only a craving for alcohol, but also a dependence on the possibility not to work, to occupy a special position in society, attachment to a certain standard of living or the possibility of possessing material goods.
Secondly, big money is beginning to changeattitude towards their possessor. This applies to relations with the opposite sex, and relationships with friends. In most cases, the desire to gain easy profit begins to play some role in all these relations. And it's logical - not the sincere friends begin to flock to the rich man, but those who want to "join" to the money. You can meet many stories about how suddenly people who are ruined leave most of his so-called friends. Remain only sincere and devoted. That's why many millionaires are obsessed with thoughts that they are being used for money. And not without reason.
So is it worth dreaming about a million dollars? Of course, it is worth dreaming, and it is important to answer the question: do you really need this? Or, if you are dreaming, it is important to realize what needs to be changed or developed in yourself to successfully pass the test of wealth.
