Waiting for the perfect man
Waiting for the perfect man
Woman, having seen enough films about love andHaving read fairy tales, in his imagination creates the image of an ideal man endowed with character traits: masculinity, sensitivity, honesty and so on. But it is unlikely to meet such a man.
Since childhood, women paint the image of their hero. A man must have a tight figure, excellent external data. A perfect man and courteous, and charming, caring, gallant, tactful, attentive, possesses an acute mind, a fine sense of humor and a connoisseur of female beauty. It feels masculine and powerful. Naturally, on the first lines of the list of the male ideal is the ability to earn money and generosity. And almost every woman tries to try on such a list of conditions for men who are in her close environment. As a result, it turns out that no one is suitable for these parameters. Each applicant has some flaws. And how to find the ideal man? You can wait for him for years, so on the path of life and not meeting. But more often it happens that a woman expects an ideal, but falls in love with absolutely not a perfect man. Certainly, it can correspond to any points of requirements of the ideal man, while the other features of the character a woman in him will educate herself. Only this erroneous error. It can happen that a lady will fall in love with a man attractive outwardly, but she is talkative. Since love is blind, the woman does not notice actions confirming words. She completely trusts her perfection. As a result, after the marriage, the woman opens her eyes, she sees that not a single promise has been fulfilled, such a man does not want and does not like to work, and is not fit for family life at all. Then comes the realization that other qualities should be possessed by an ideal person: the ability to manage the economy on a par with his wife and earn money, to be a loving and caring father for his children. Often, failure to comply with such conditions will lead to the dissolution of marriage. On the other hand, a wise woman is able to help her man become ideal for her. To do this, you need to be patient, even if a man with a task assigned to him does poorly or does not do it at all, to praise him for the achieved heights. It is even better to cheer your man up and say that you believe in him. Then a man after a certain period of time can become for you a perfect husband.
