How to teach a child to obey his parents
How to teach a child to obey his parents
Child disobedience worsens the relationship with the child and spoils the nerves of all family members. How can you exist peacefully, avoiding unnecessary conflict situations? How to teach child listen parents? Try to become an example for him, having won parental authority.
Instructions
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The dream of many parents is to be for the growing upa real example, to enjoy his respect and disposition, regardless of age. Being for his child authority, mom or dad is much easier to explain to the baby what is good and what is bad. Remember that this authority needs constant development. You can only strengthen it by continuously evolving as a person. And this applies even to the most intelligent and educated parents.
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At the earliest age (up to 1 year), the mother isfor the kid everything: it provides for his existence. Therefore, her parental authority at this time is formed automatically. At the age of one to three years, the child is very important to play together. In them, Mom and Dad are the main bearers of knowledge about the world and objects. From three to six, in addition to games, it is very important to discuss with the child read together books, cartoons. Do everything together, not excluding the child from your adult life. In the game, study, communication and life without rules will not work. Just remember that your requirements for the baby should be clear and justified. And they must be respected by all family members. Do not forget about the sequence: having solved something one time, you can not explain to the child why it is impossible - in another. Try not to abuse the prohibitions. Let them relate only to life-threatening things. To a kid who is forbidden by everyone, it is very difficult to be obedient.
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Schoolchildren from 7 to 12 years are necessary and importanthelp of parents in school. Support it, help in establishing contacts with peers. Participate in his life, organize hikes, tours, trips, talk about his professional activities. This will strengthen your parental authority and ensure the gratitude of the child in the future. Your friendship with your son or daughter, which is based on natural authority, helps children adopt the values and norms of their parents. By his actions the child seeks to evoke parental approval and respect, and there are simply no grounds for child disobedience in such a family.
