How to teach your child to be neat
How to teach your child to be neat
Accuracy is expressed in the love of order,accuracy in deeds, diligence, external neatness. How can you teach a child to be neat, but do not overstep the stick, making him too preoccupied with purgatory?
It is possible to begin to accustom the child to accuracy withearly age, although it is not worthwhile seriously demanding this from a baby under the age of 1.5. After all, in such children, the coordination of movements is not yet developed very well to do something neatly. Yes, and understand where the order, and where not, is still difficult.
Two-three-year-olds usually begin to experienceparents to find out how much they can violate the prohibitions. Often they deliberately arrange a mess. In this case, do not join the child in a wrangling, it is likely to only provoke him. It is better just to show that my mother is upset by this behavior of her baby.
Sometimes it is necessary to allow the child to get dirty indirt, in the sand, in the paint, almost all children like this. But at the same time explain that if you go, for example, to visit or to a kindergarten, you need to be clean and tidy.
Children older than three years are already able aftercreative work to remove the paint, scissors, plasticine, cut out the paper scraps. Just do not distract the child during the lesson, and stipulate in advance that his work must necessarily end with the establishment of order.
However, one should not get too hung up on the order andpurity. So you can kill any desire of the child for creativity, his initiative. When striving for an ideal in everything, there is a risk of growing a neat, obsessed with cleanliness. Such people find it hard to be in society, because any disorder irritates them. So, you need to remember the golden mean.
Accuracy is laid, first of all,situation in the family. Children, imitating adults, also begin to strive for order and purity. They learn to brush their teeth, wash their hands, wash their beds, clean their toys, clothes, shoes. The task of adults is to instill in children intolerance of dirt, inaccuracy and untidiness.
