Tip 1: Soothers
Tip 1: Soothers
One of the most interesting and intricate questionsyoung parents - do you need a baby dummy? All children have a sucking reflex and can be satisfied always in different ways. Somewhere for this is used the breast, somewhere a bottle, and somewhere sucking fingers, and somewhere - nipples and pacifiers.
Instructions
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Choose a pacifier according to your baby's age. Pay attention to the shape of the ring-limiter and choose the one that will not cause inconvenience to the child.
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Latex dummies can cause allergies. Buy pacifiers only in specialized stores or pharmacies and only after consulting a pediatrician.
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If the dummy suddenly falls to the floor, do not lick it, then give the child, because good hygiene is very questionable here. Clean the pacifier by boiling or washing.
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Do not use a pacifier as soothing, that is, do not plug it with his requests or screams. Use a pacifier if nothing else helps.
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Satisfaction of the sucking reflex always distracts from any unpleasant sensations and from the processes of cognition of the world, so that whenever possible, use dummies as rarely as possible.
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A dummy can soothe and relieve pain, and this is more useful than a medicine. Models with bevelled top promote active development of the lower jaw and improve bite.
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Do not give your baby a pacifier until you have enough milk to form and the baby has a breast-holding skill.
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If a child grows on an artificialfeeding, a dummy is especially important for him. There is an opinion that children who were not satisfied with the need for sucking, in the future have psychological problems.
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In order to wean your child from a dummyartificially, you can resort to one of the ways: to give a "bird", "hedgehog"; shorten the pacifier until it becomes unpleasant or uncomfortable for sucking; find another, uncomfortable pacifier, and a convenient hide.
Tip 2: Is it necessary to give the baby a pacifier
A young mother faces a lot of questions,related to the care of an infant. Among them - is it necessary to use a pacifier or is it harmful for a child? Dummies, of course, it is convenient to use when falling asleep or hiking in public places, but will not they harm the child?
If the baby is breastfed,First of all, he must form a correct grip of the breast nipple. The technique of capturing the nipples is completely different. Therefore, in order not to create unnecessary problems for breastfeeding, the use of nipples is better to postpone at least until the baby turns 3-4 months old.
When a child cries, he is usually hungry, hissomething bothers or he just wants to be with mom. First of all, you need to establish the cause of tears, eliminate it and only then, if necessary, use the nipple. A dummy should not replace a mother.
Some children have an increased need forsucking. But this does not mean that they need a nipple. They can manage their fingers. At the baby they are always clean (unlike a dummy, which now and then turns out to be on the floor).
Specialists did not agree on whether the use of the nipple affects the formation of an occlusion in a child. Therefore, at the moment there is no reason to exclude the negative effect of the dummy on the baby's teeth.
It is often difficult to wean a child from a nipple. Think about the comfort that gives the use of a dummy, the problems that you will have to face when you leave it.
Tip 3: How to keep your boyfriend
You paid attention to what is happening in lifemany meetings, but even more partings? Far from all the stormy novels develop into serious relationships. You can easily attract attention to yourself and go on a date a couple of times, and then what? And then - you have to keep it next to you, if you want to develop promising relations. How can this be done?
Instructions
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Mysteriousness or zest Become for himunpredictable, do what he never expects from you, be unusual. Are you interested in a guy who blows off dust particles from you, looks into your mouth and says about your love every minute? So he needs intrigue in the relationship and the girl is a mystery.
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The wealth of the inner world Read moreliterature, listen to music, visit museums, do dances - be a fully developed personality. Do not think that it can be kept in one bed, naked sex gets too boring. You can not interest him for a long time, if you do not have anything to talk about. The wider the range of your interests - the more chances to keep him close. "Soothers" are of no interest to anyone.
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Ability to leave at the right time. Go away likeOnly they saw that his eyes shone with interest. Act like in the Mexican series - they always end in the most intriguing moment. Never give in to persuading, for example, to stay for an hour or a little more on the bench. And he will want, as soon as possible, to meet you again.
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Self-esteem Give himfreedom and personal space. You must understand that he has a family, work or study. Do not hang on his neck and do not run after him - do not lose self-esteem. You do not want him to start avoiding you?
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Be able to rejoice with him. Praise him andgenuinely admire. Do you like it when you notice your achievements and successes? So he also "loves with his ears," whatever they say. Let him know that you are proud of him, that he is the best for you.
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The ability to control yourselfemotions, do not turn into a grumbling aunt. Sooner or later it will start to irritate your unshakable demands, and the relationship will cease to bring joy. With you it should be easy and fun, worry every meeting, and you for him a girl - a holiday.
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Wisdom Demonstrate understanding to its problems,try to solve them together. He also tries to understand and help you, if necessary? So you become a support for him, and you do not have to puzzle over the topic - how to keep him. No guy will voluntarily leave a girl who has become his support in life.
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Respect Offer the guy the freedom to choose, trust him, do not make hysterics, respect him - and he himself will strive to be near you.
Tip 4: How to wean the baby from a pacifier and a bottle
A dummy and a bottle are indispensable attributes in the care of an infant. But the baby is growing and it's time to say goodbye to them. That's where the problems begin.
If your child turns a year old, and he is stillpores can not sleep without a pacifier and drinks from a bottle, it's time to start an operation to exempt from these useful attributes. Categorically, you should not do this if the baby's teeth are chopped - no additional stress is needed now. Also, do not proceed to surgery if your child is sick - he should be absolutely cheerful and cheerful.
Begin to wean the child from something one - withWhat you think is less necessary for a child at a given time. For example, from a bottle. Just hide far away (and better throw) all the bottles and give the baby a mixture, milk and liquid porridge from the drinker. At first, he can perceive this is not very positive, but very soon he will get used to it. The main thing is that the bottle never again caught his eye.
After a week, another, you can startexcommunication of the nipples. If the baby does not release her from the mouth during the day, minimize her arrival in the mouth of the baby - explain that if we take the nipple into the mouth, then we close our eyes and go to bed. Those. at first give the pacifier only to sleep. Next, have patience, throw out all the nipples.
Baby can survive for two days, will askgive him a pacifier, but soon he will calm down and forget about its existence. The main thing is that she suddenly does not remind herself of herself somewhere. By a year and a half it is good that the child is completely disaccustomed to a pacifier and a bottle.
Tip 5: How to persuade a child to give up a pacifier
Most mothers by 2-3 years beginwonder whether it's time to wean the child from the nipple. By the age of 3, the kid has many interesting hobbies and affairs, and therefore say goodbye to the pacifier will be easier. But some children can make hysterics or scandals.
Instructions
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It is necessary to gradually omit the child from the nipple. use the same methods is not worth it. Spreading nipples with mustard, forcibly selecting or cutting off the tip of the nipple, will not lead to anything good.
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With a sudden abandonment of a pacifier, a child can become nervous, irritable and capricious. And will try to look for her replacement - suck a finger or the edge of the quilt.
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Up to 2 years, it will be difficult for a child to part with a pacifier. And so after reaching this age, he can already understand what parents want from him.
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In the afternoon, try not to give your baby a pacifier. But before going to bed it may still be needed.
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Think about a story, why you need to say goodbye to the pacifier. For example, in the morning comes the gnome and takes a pacifier, and in the evening it gives.
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Try to explain to the child that he is already an adult, and the nipple is for babies.
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If the child can not give up his pacifier, then show some patience. Anyway, the moment of farewell to the nipple will someday come.
