How to cope with childhood hysterics
How to cope with childhood hysterics
Shouts, stomping with feet, crying ... these symptomsKnown to many parents, but not everyone knows how to cope with them. Meanwhile, there are simple and effective methods that will help to cope with such situations.
Fighting with child hysteria is necessary, becauseThe character of a person is formed in childhood. The habit of achieving the desired through hysteria will gradually develop into the habit of achieving what is desired by scandals and threats. Communicate with such a person neither children nor adults will want.
Methods to combat child hysteria
Fight with hysterics can be in many ways, consider a few of the most common and effective.
- Persuasion. You can try to calmly persuade the child to calm down, but this method works only if the child's goal was not to receive toys or ice cream, but the parent's attention.
- Do not mention it. This option has the right to exist only at home, on a visit or in crowded places, the crying of the child will cause irritation to others.
- For the hysterics of the child sometimes it is necessary to punish, but not physically. In this situation, it is better to send the child to another room or put in a corner.
- We need to teach the child that he will not achieve anything by his weeping, but he can only lose pleasure (TV, walk, sweets and not only).
Ways to prevent hysteria
If you have long indulged the vagaries of a child, then in a short time you will not be able to get rid of them, since by the age of five he has already developed models of behavior at home, on the street, at guests and not only.
Parents should explain to this agechild, that on the street you can not shout loudly, cry, you should talk politely with people, etc. Do not expect that the child himself will guess everything. Children always look at the behavior of their parents, so one should not explain to the child one thing, but act differently. In this case, no conversations and explanations will help, the child will do the same as you.
Having shown patience in education, you can saveand myself, and the child from crying and hysterics for any reason. But in any rules there should be exceptions. In some situations, care and compassion should be shown in relation to the child, even when he is capricious. Such situations include adaptation to the new environment, relocation, a new team, the departure of parents for a long time, etc.
