What problems are typical for modern parents
What problems are typical for modern parents
In modern families, the relationship betweenparents and children are often built on a democratic basis, but some families still adhere to an authoritarian type of education, in which the will of the child is in the hands of the parents. One way or another, both approaches are not capable of preventing problems that await each parent at certain stages of life.
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Parents and the child are one,a kind of system in which gears and nuts are replaced by emotions and empathy. Therefore, the difficulties of one of the family members, in particular the baby, become common for each of its members. Often, difficulties in the family arise during crisis moments of child development. One of the first difficult periods is the age of about two to three years. At this time, the child refuses to obey Mom and Dad, shows negativity, self-will, stubbornness. The activity of the baby in this period goes off scale. With such a sudden change in behavior, parents face painfully, because they do not know what to do with such a pressure of energy. However, you should not consider this behavior of the baby as "wrong". This is a completely natural stage of development, during which it is worthwhile to spend as many mobile games as possible, to walk with the child more often and try not to avoid contact with peers. This period must be simply experienced.
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The second crisis moment - the beginning of the schoollearning. At this stage, it is necessary to ascertain whether the child is ready to enter public life, in which he will have to establish contact with classmates and a teacher. It is also necessary to pay attention to the child's mental capabilities. Otherwise, he may have difficulty in learning and not be able to master the curriculum.
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The third crisis moment is the mostfull of problems and complexities - teenage. At this time, the teenager moves away from his parents, acquires interests completely remote from family life. Love dramas flare up in young hearts, there are new hobbies. Children late return home, get dubious friends. Such surprises virtually every day surprise parents, thus causing a lot of conflict situations in which neither side can not find an understanding.
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Modern parents face a multitude ofproblems just like their own parents, a generation earlier. Problems do not change their nature, only the approach to their resolution changes. However, the current parents very often can not give their child the landmark by which he will follow through life, a kind of anchor for which he will stick. Especially it is worth paying attention to this before adolescence, otherwise it will be too late to change anything.
