What if the girl has changed
What if the girl has changed
Not every man in the shower Othello, ready to killfor treason. But almost everyone experiences this fact extremely painfully, if the beloved was at least to some extent expensive. Jealousy of a man is a very difficult feeling, it is biological, that is, independent of education. The situation is complicated, and many are interested in the question - what to do if girl has changed.
First, you need to distinguish facts from storiesoften, the girl is trying to slander her friend or your competitor, who just wants to quarrel with you. Therefore, while they themselves have not seen anything, consider treason unproven, even if she herself says she has changed. Sometimes girls try to show that they are needed and interesting, they come up with stories about treason to annoy a man. Adhere to the presumption of innocence. That is, until nothing is proved, do not take any serious action. Secondly, if the betrayal took place, find out whether it is related to the structure of the girl's personality. Part of the blame always lies on the man, but not all of the blame. Perhaps you chose a favorite demonstrative girl who craves male attention, and she just could not stop in time, moved from harmless flirting to a more intimate relationship. To judge it too severely for it is impossible, this is its natural quality, such women need constantly bright impressions. To treason is not repeated, fill her life with unusual events, come with a rose in your teeth, buy new clothes and organize candlelight dinners. This fee is not so high, because girls of a demonstrative type usually look most effective and are able to become a visiting card of their husband. Thirdly, look for your part of the blame. Men are often to blame for the fact that they often start taking the beloved for granted, and do not pay enough attention to the development of relations. Maybe, girl thinks that it's time to move on to the legalization stageyour connection, but you, as a solid person, feel that you are not yet financially or morally ready. And Lovelace, seduced her, sang to her about marriage and future children. Therefore, after deciding whether you can forgive in principle, seriously consider and discuss the development of relations. Many girls rightly believe that while they are not married, they have the right to communicate with anyone. Therefore, if girl you are very dear and you can forgive - make an offer and live happily ever after. If not, then it is better to immediately stop the relationship, so it will be more honest.
