What to do if the husband is annoying
What to do if the husband is annoying
It would seem that people who voluntarily marryand those who love each other should enjoy life. After all, there is nothing better than being next to a loved one. But more and more often, cohabitation causes more negative than positive emotions.
Some couples get tired of each other and life's routinethrough many years of married life, and others with horror understand that only a few months after the wedding have passed, and they already have no strength to tolerate each other. Why is this happening and what can be done in this situation? It is fair to say that women are more displeased with the address men. In principle, this is understandable: weak sex is more sensitive, pedantic, demanding and unstable. Yes, it is because of mood swings and female inconstancy in the family that many conflicts occur. When the irritation reaches its peak, it is possible to break many firewood and even destroy the family. To prevent this, you need to understand the reason for your irritability and act. To begin with, clearly formulate a list of things that annoy you in the husband (it can be habits, qualities, character, actions and words) and honestly admit that the husband became such after the wedding or similar actions were peculiar to him and during courtship. Agree that if you "through the fingers" looked at the future husband before the wedding, and he did not hide his shortcomings, then to blame him for anything, at least, is unfair. Further, analyze how important it is for you that a husband does something different. Maybe you just need him to admit that he was wrong and more appreciated what you are doing for him? And can now a difficult period in your life, all leaned on the fragile shoulders of a weak woman, and fatigue splashed out with bouts of irritability? Try to focus on the positive. Write down what the husband is doing for you, and do not forget about the little things. Always thank him for caring and emphasize how much he cares about you. Praise inspires and inspires mento become even better for you, and the reasonsTo be annoyed will be less and less. It is still possible that you are irritated only occasionally, and this is simply due to hormonal changes in the body. Resign yourself to this and tell your feelings to your husband so that he can consider your needs. Remember that many difficulties in the family are solved through open and honest communication.
