How to get the guy to tell the truth
How to get the guy to tell the truth
Building relationships on lies is meaningless. However, sometimes the concealment of truth acts as a protective reaction, but often subsequently grows to menacing proportions. And the longer a guy deceives, the more sophisticated methods he uses to cover up his lies.
Instructions
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Not everyone has the courage to recognize their ownwrong. Hence the need to embellish the natural course of events, to shield themselves, to justify themselves and to invent non-existent details, which supposedly soften the blame, is born. But to make a beautiful fairy tale not fall apart, its sequel is born. And sometimes people literally get bogged down in their own lies and are no longer able to tell the truth from fiction. Of course, to admit such a critical situation is by no means possible, so it is important to bring the deceiver to clean water.
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If you decide to find out the truth on the interestingyou problem, ask directly at the most inappropriate for this situation. The question is too simple, and the guy thought about - most likely, he had not yet managed to come up with another lie or was simply confused. Continue the dialogue - do not let's create a new fairy tale, it's much easier to understand if the person is telling the truth or hiding something.
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Avoid standard questions, because there are at least standard answers to all standard questions. Clarifications such as "Why?" And "Why?" Will also help to achieve the truth.
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If you repeatedly ask the same questions,but in different situations, a person can start to stray in those places where he says untruth. However, if you are mistaken about lies, you risk getting exactly the opposite effect.
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To understand that a person embellishesreality, can be done with the help of simple observation. When someone lies, the reflex activates unconsciously, forcing to cover the mouth with the palm. Ask at this point at A guy, that he hides. If he really grafts, such a statement of the question will put him in a dead end, and a person can inadvertently slip out.
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Men, unlike women, tend to trustfacts, and not intuition, so in most cases they will split only under the influence of incontrovertible evidence. Therefore, if you are not sure that the guy is lying to you and he refutes this stubbornly, you should wait for the moment and collect arguments for your rightness - under his onslaught, he will only have to surrender.
