How to choose when you love both

How to choose when you love both



A woman who managed to fall in love immediatelytwo men, you should make a choice. Otherwise, she will have to lead a double life, deceiving her loved ones. In addition, the indecisiveness of a woman can bring her elect many suffering.





How to choose when you love both


















Instructions





1


Try to understand who you would like to stay withforever, whom they would like to make a companion of life. Sometimes a person confuses love with passion, with a fleeting, but very strong hobby. If you make the wrong choice, falling in love after a while will pass, and you will bitterly regret that they have driven the native person away for the sake of a short passion.





2


Think about who you are more afraid to lose. For example, if you can not imagine a revival without a loved one nearby, bored, when he is not with you, discussing with him all important decisions, then his loss can be very serious. If you meet a man seldom and just love to spend time with him, then it will be easier to get out of it.





3


Analyze your relationship. Think about which of the men suits you more, with whom you are less likely to quarrel, who more often cares about you and understands better. Try to be objective, because feelings often make people turn a blind eye to the very important shortcomings of lovers. For example, if a man at least once raised his hand on you, you do not need to justify it. Just go to another.





4


Take into account such important things as having a family,joint business, children, etc. If you think that you love your husband and lover the same way, choose your husband. On the other hand, if you are not married, and one of your chosen ones is married, you better leave him alone and choose a free man. And if you do not care about the destruction of someone else's family, think about the fact that your chosen one may not quit his wife for you.





5


Answer yourself, for the sake of which of the men are you readyfor more. Who will you run to first, if both of them suddenly go to the hospital? Who do you support if he is suddenly fired from his job? Who are you ready to defend against the evil attacks of your friends? Be sincere at least with yourself and try to do as the heart and women's intuition tell you.