Tip 1: How to get your husband not to change
Tip 1: How to get your husband not to change
As you know, most men are polygamous. And let their heart is occupied only by you, they will still look, and sometimes go "left". If this is unpleasant for you, and most likely, it is, try to work on your spouse. This can be done in several different ways.
Instructions
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The most radical method in this case -to threaten your spouse with a divorce. Most likely, this statement will have an immediate effect. True, this effect can often not be resorted to. Otherwise, the threat will simply cease to be regarded seriously. There is also one other side of this medal. Suddenly your spouse is so weak at the front that it exchanges the monotony of family life for absolute freedom of action.
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Another way to keep the windy husband - allpossible ways to prevent him from doing so. This can be done in different ways. The first option - try to have sex with him as often as possible (on average, 3 times a day). Squeeze out of it all the juices, and then he definitely will not walk "left" (because he simply can not). At the same time, in any case, do not treat love as an involuntary measure or an obligatory procedure. Men see falseness through and through such behavior you, on the contrary, will frighten off the spouse.
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If frequent sex is not part of your plans,arrange a romantic weekend for your spouse. Feel free to reincarnate, use products from the sex shop, try new poses and caresses - in general, do everything so that each time the husband is amazed at your ingenuity. Over time, he will become so accustomed to sophisticated sex that banal copulation will simply cease to interest him.
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Alternative "retention" of a man infamily - to fill up his homework. Load it with cases so that on the "left" campaign, he simply does not have time. In this case, do not say to your spouse phrases like "you should", "you are obliged". It should be asked tenderly and gently - then the man will feel his superiority and your admiration for his talents and will happily carry out all household affairs.
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If you value honesty in a relationship, simplytalk to your husband and try to find out the reason for his adultery. Perhaps in his actions you will be to blame yourself, so the faster you bring him to a frank conversation, the easier it will be for both of you to live on.
Tip 2: How not to be jealous of her husband
Jealousy hinders family happiness and provokes serious crises. You will be able to cope with this unpleasant manifestation, if in time you will understand what causes make you jealous of your husband.
Instructions
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Do not look for a reason for jealousy. This is fraught with the development of pathology and requires the intervention of a specialist. Such forms of jealousy are a consequence of low self-esteem, acute self-doubt and require active work on themselves.
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Think about what exactly causes youzealous behavior towards her husband. In every person there is a sense of ownership, which is absolutely normal. But it should not take any perverted forms in relation to the person with whom you decided to spend your whole life. You can not and should not limit his human freedom.
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Accept yourself as you are. Often problems in communicating with the opposite sex are rooted in childhood. If the child was deprived of love and support from his parents, he heard mostly only shouting and teaching, then his uncertainty in adulthood, fear of making important decisions, problems in communicating with the opposite sex become natural and understandable. Unfortunately, jealousy is inevitably present in the character of such a person, because expresses his inability to harmonize relations. However, do not consider this a sentence: it can be changed.
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Look for true harmony in the world around you. Find a favorite thing. It can be both work and a hobby. Try as long as possible to be in a state of rest, balance. You immediately feel how you relax, start to smile. Believe me, your husband will immediately see these changes, he does not even think about the idea of making you jealous.
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Believe in your happiness and success. The easiest way to defeat this ailment is for optimists and people who are more often than not in a happy mood. The reason for jealousy can be negative experience. Believe me, not all men change. Do not compare your ex-husband with a real husband and do not compare old relationships with existing ones.
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Trust your husband, because for some reasonyou walk together in life. Then why fill it with jealousy and constant concern for non-existent treason? Otherwise, seriously talk to your spouse and find the optimal solution together.
