Tip 1: How to be a real girl
Tip 1: How to be a real girl
This question interests girls who onlybegan to adulthood, but still do not know the rules that are so well known to older girls. How not to become the cause of ridicule of others and not to stuff superfluous cones, how to behave in an adult, as yet new world for you? How to be real the girl?
Instructions
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Do not show everyone that you, too,became an adult, spreading tons of make-up on herself, showering with perfume and clothing dresses embroidered with rhinestones and lurex, going even for a walk. Try to ensure that your appearance and clothes always correspond to the time and place, dress comfortably, but stylishly and accurately.
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Do not think that you can attract people with loud cries, laughter, causing behavior. In the best case, you will simply stop noticing, and at worst you just rush to rudeness.
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Even if you know how to smoke and masterfully drink beerfrom the cans, do not show everyone this once again, this skill, maybe you will surprise your peers, but you will not be surprised, but older people are no more. If you like to do this, then choose bars and restaurants for this, never chicken when you walk down the street.
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Remember that no bright clothes and self-confidenttone can not hide from others lack of intelligence and knowledge. Develop, read books, learn, be always open to the new. Find yourself some interesting hobby associated with physical development - mountain skiing, windsurfing, cycling, yoga. Become interesting for yourself, and you will be interesting to others.
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Learn to be a mistress. As a future wife and mother, you should be aware that the comfort and peace in the house largely depend on the woman. And she does not necessarily have to hang around the stove or walk around the house with a vacuum cleaner all day, just need to be able to organize your house.
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Remain yourself, do not be shy to be kind andsweet, falseness in behavior is always felt. Take care of others, be positive and benevolent. Be strong and independent, but do not be afraid to show your weakness, because it is sometimes manifested in women's power.
Tip 2: How to meet Vkontakte
One of the most common waysDating in our time is communicating through social networks. A popular social network among young people is Vkontakte. Here you can meet and start talking in a girl.
You will need
- - personal page of Vkontakte;
- - high-quality picture on the avatar;
- - open and complete information about you;
- - the ability to conduct a casual on-line conversation.
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First, take care of yourpages. On the avatar, you should look if not flawless, then at least neat and natural. Qualitative photos are not a problem nowadays, and you can find a professional photographer for a photo session here - Vkontakte. It will be better if for the first time a girl sees you against the backdrop of a beautiful landscape or sports hall, and not over a glass of beer or against the backdrop of an old-fashioned carpet.
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Secondly, edit the section with information about theitself. Fill in the fields of the questionnaire and your tastes, preferences and interests, you will save time on the story about this and make an impression of an open person for communication.
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Third, watch the wall of your page. It is better to open it for public viewing. But you should not leave on it hopeless, too romantic or, conversely, vulgar entries that can push the opposite sex. More good humor and a positive attitude - this will attract to you not only the attention of the opposite sex, but also good luck.
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Fourth, choosing a girl to meet,evaluate not only her appearance and figure, but also information about her, a list of her friends. If a single girl "in active search" has too many male friends, it may well be that she collects them. Analyze the records on her wall, they can tell a lot about her values, dreams, aspirations. Read the information about the girl, so you will understand what she likes, what she prefers. Perhaps this will give you a clue where it will be better to invite to a date.
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Fifthly, communication is important. Do not start it with shameless and impudent sentences or with an abundance of vulgar compliments. Be natural, open and friendly. This will arrange the girl to communicate. Do not overdo with humor, but also with compliments. Admiration should be in moderation, and even less should not belittle your own dignity.
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Sixth, feel confident. It depends on it, whether your communication in the network will be natural, easy and enjoyable. Talk about yourself, but mainly pay attention to it - be interested in its inner world, its interests and dreams, life's problems. Becoming a friend, you can later take the place of the lover in her heart.
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Do not overdo it with virtual communication. Do not delay it too much. True love and relationships will not work if you communicate for three months and still do not dare to meet. Invite her to a cafe or a movie, because communication in the real world is much more interesting.
Tip 3: How not to be modest with a girl
Modesty can not be called a negative featurecharacter, but in her youth she often interferes with getting acquainted and making friends. Particularly badly because of this peculiarity the young men suffer, because society dictates them to dominate the relationship. Defeat modesty is difficult enough, but you can learn to make the right impression on the girl.
Instructions
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Always greet first and smile at the objectsympathy. A smile makes the face pleasant and open. Modest and shy people often look sullen or arrogant only because they can not naturally smile.
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When talking with a girl, do not drop your eyes. If you can maintain eye contact, you will create the impression of an open and not timid young man. In addition, the girl immediately understands that you feel for her sympathy. To overcome the fear of eye contact, train with someone from friends or family.
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Watch your gestures, facial expressions, posture,speech. Exercising in front of the mirror, get rid of everything that indicates your shyness: stop stooping, spread your shoulders, speak confidently and loud enough.
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Do not be afraid to tell the girl about your successes. So that it does not look like boasting, talk about achievements only to the place. For example, when she needs help or advice - if you are strong in the right field, why not talk about it?
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Increase your self-esteem with affirmations. This is a method similar to self-hypnosis. The essence of it is to surround yourself with positive thoughts that contribute to the achievement of the desired result. Affirmations are compiled in the present tense, to the affirmative firm, without using the particle "not" and the words "no", "never", "stopped", "got rid". If you do not comply with this rule, affirmations will lead to negative results. For example, "I freely communicate with girls, I am a relaxed person" - the right affirmations, "I'm not shy, I stopped embarrassing with the girls" - wrong.
Tip 4: Non-different friends: how to make friends with a girl
Friends help to spend time pleasantly. Communication with these kindred souls allows a person to remain himself and self-express. Therefore, it is worth to find a friend and create a strong relationship with her.
A real friend can understand,sympathize, give advice, share your interests. However, it is becoming increasingly difficult to find such a girl. Strong relationships between people are not conducive to rapidly changing life, its high rate and daily stress. With age, the problem of true friends is also exacerbated. As a child, it was enough to have common hobbies. The older a person becomes, the more demands he makes on potential friends. After all, with people of a different circle, different upbringing, social status and different from your worldview, it is difficult to communicate and understand each other. At the same time, there are many places where one can find a girlfriend. If your hobbies include several items, perhaps you will get acquainted with a nice girl at training courses, in a fitness center, in a club of interests. A great place to make new friends is work. The main thing - do not stay apart, be open to communication. In the workplace, you spend the lion's share of time. Therefore, it is worthwhile to concentrate your searches at the office. Get accustomed to colleagues, do not miss the opportunity to participate in corporate events, try not to eat alone, look for common topics.
By the way, one of the topics - professional activity - you have. So, you already have on what to base your communication with the girl.Be ready for a new friendship. It is important to understand that for the establishment of a new contact you will need time, internal forces. Relations with friends, too, should carry out certain work. The only way to create a strong union. With a new friend you need to communicate, have fun, share your impressions. Try to constantly deepen your relationship until you reach a true spiritual intimacy and become inseparable friends. Be sincere and honest. Try not only to receive positive emotions from communication, but also to give something in return. Friends do not just share information, but also help in difficult situations. A true friend is distinguished by tactfulness, indifference, generosity, kindness and benevolence. To be a true friend, you need to inspire trust. Be able to store other people's secrets. Excessive talkableness will make you a bad companion. Learn to listen. This skill will make you a real support group for the girl. True friendship is manifested in the ability to share joyful and sorrowful moments. Do not try to deceive your girlfriend and pretend. Understand that at a subconscious level, people feel deception and manipulation attempts. Keep the word given to your girlfriend. Let her understand that you can count on. Be attentive and punctual. It is also important to respect the girl's opinion and refrain from harsh criticism of her.
Remember that the girlfriend is waiting for your support.Cherish your relationship with your girlfriend. Sometimes you should compromise and be flexible. Otherwise, you risk losing your relationship at an early stage of their birth. Between friends, there may be tensions and misunderstandings. But true friends keep together the desire to quickly make up and forget the grievances.
