How to communicate with a guy in order to arouse his interest
How to communicate with a guy in order to arouse his interest
Promising acquaintances are far from happeningoften, as would be desirable. Therefore, you need to take every chance to find your love. To summon and keep the interest of a guy is possible, showing his best qualities and sincere attention. All chances of success also have those girls who are able to maintain a casual and entertaining conversation.
Instructions
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Show originality. Everyday problems always cause boredom, so you need to find a topic that will interest your interlocutor. Nothing will surprise a guy more than a girl's passion for non-sports sports: snowboarding, football, hockey, etc.
2
Talk to the guy on one "wave". For girls, emotions and feelings are important - leave them to communicate with friends. Guys are more used to leaning on facts. Tell something that is interesting for him - where you visited that you saw that the new one was recognized, esteemed or looked.
3
Be natural and at ease. Do you think that you will be more interested in the guy, pretending to be a fatal queen or charming coquette? But this is not so. The mask will prevent you from demonstrating your true virtues, you will behave unnaturally and caricatured.
4
Learn the interests of the interlocutor. Carefully listen to his reports on work or the last fishing, ask for details. If the guy is very well versed in any area - ask him for advice, help. Let him feel that you respect his authority.
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Show sincere interest in the affairs of the guy. Representatives of the strong half of humanity most of all like to talk about their achievements and successes, ideas and aspirations. They need to be appreciated, thanked, praised and understood.
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Avoid obsession and excessive curiosity. If the guy leaves the answer - do not insist and change the subject. Do not try to control it - it has nothing to do with the desire to get to know the guy better and push him away.
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The guy will see in you an interesting person,if you know about your achievements, victories and finds. Show him what you are a professional. But, showing friendliness and openness, for complete success you need to be able to keep and mystery. Always just open the veil over a part of your life, allowing him to unravel the rest.
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Do not forget to show your sense of humor. Jokes, humor, interesting and incidental stories will help you defuse the situation and stir up a dying interest in communication.
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Telling something, try to feelthe interlocutor. When the guy is bored, you will understand this from a diffused look, vague or monotonous answers. If you want to remain interesting, change the topic and do not "load" it anymore. In addition to tedious topics, one should avoid complaints.
