How to arrange an acquaintance with a girl son
How to arrange an acquaintance with a girl son
Acquaintance with the parents of his boyfriend is,of course, a serious test for a young girl. But mothers, who are preparing to get acquainted with the chosen one of their son, should thoroughly prepare for this event.
Instructions
1
Arrange a dinner and invite the girl of your son to him. After all, dinner - this is a long established in our society tradition, besides it is he who creates the most suitable for familiarity with the situation.
2
Make an impression, like it's an ordinary dinner innarrow family circle. Do not inflate a regional event from it and do not try to show off to your son's girlfriend somehow. Be sure that it (worrying no less, and more than yours) is at least confusing, if not scare.
3
In order not to get into an embarrassing situation by askingany incorrect question or touching on a topic that is too sensitive for a guest, ask your son to tell you about your girlfriend just before the acquaintance. Perhaps she will be a vegetarian or find out that the girl does not like talking about politics, because her father is very much in a state of failure in the political arena, etc.
4
In advance, consider an approximate list of topics,which could be talked to the girl's son, otherwise after questions about her parents and about how and when she left school, an awkward pause may hang around the table. But let them not only concern the girl herself and her relatives, so that the dinner-acquaintance does not turn into an interview, which will have to end with the words "We will call you if you are suitable for us."
5
Over dinner, do not become a fan of yourown son, to increase his popularity. It's not at all necessary to talk about how many years your "clever little boy" started to read, especially not to list all his school awards. Be sure, if the girl agreed to such a serious step, as an acquaintance with the parents, it means that she feels quite serious feelings towards your son.
