How to cope with the birth of twins
How to cope with the birth of twins
The birth of twins is a double joy for parents, but also cares and troubles multiplied by two. Tips on how to cope with the birth of twins.
Instructions
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It's time to teach yourself to be organized. Be adjusted to the fact that you always need to remain collected by the sane. Properly set goals, the adoption of common rules for the whole family, order in everything, important factors that will help spouses cope with everyday difficulties.
2
All parents try to be the best for theirChildren and seek to cope with all matters and concerns on their own. Do not give up the outstretched hand of help. If relatives and friends try to help you in every way, gratefully accept their help. Even if you do not trust your children to anyone, ask for help with cleaning, cooking, buying the necessary products. Do not give up assistance out of courtesy, the time will come, and you will definitely return the debt to your assistant.
3
Look at everything with optimism. Do not allow yourself to be upset and grieved, even if it seems that your twins drive you crazy. Imagine those women who can not have children and would give everything for such troubles, because of which you are upset.
4
Be sure to arrange a holiday for two, forparents, and not for twins. Spend the evening together, get out at the cinema in a cafe, stay with friends. To help you find a little time for yourself, your family and friends will sit with children with pleasure, in the extreme case you can hire a professional nanny who will not let your double bored and take care of them properly.
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Personal time. Each of the spouses must have a personal time, which he devotes exclusively to himself, which is important. Only the person who can satisfy his needs and allows himself to relax sometimes can remain calm and collected. Plan the overall schedule so that in turn for a small amount of time to do what you want. Let one of the spouses go with the kids for a walk, or on their own, or with someone else's help, will deal with them.
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Leave yourself the right to make a mistake. Do not get hung up on doing something wrong. A person can not know everything in the world. Making a mistake, you expand your knowledge and do not repeat the mistake. You are not a superman and you can not demand from yourself the impossible.
