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You will need

• Moral principles
• Strength of will
• Courage

Instructions

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To win respect, the main thing is to beman of the word. If you said that do something, do it. After all, respect is given to someone you can trust. If others feel that you can not be relied on, then they will definitely not respect you.

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To win respect, be honest. You will be surprised when you learn how much respect you can win by telling the truth, instead of building labyrinths of lies that protect you from trouble.

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Be a person who is not afraid to speakagainst bullies. This does not mean that you should always argue and fight with someone who looks like a bully. But if someone really hurts others, do not be afraid to get up and ask the buzoter to stop. If you take care of the rights of others, you will undoubtedly win respect.

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To win respect, be sure to encourageothers when they are doing something good. When you let others know that you appreciate them, they appreciate and respect you in return. But do not overdo it - thank people only for those actions that are worth it. Be sincere and disinterested in this.

Instructions

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Listen to what a man tells you. Pikapery rarely talk about their successes, much more often they like to write soul-mugging fables. If your new friend speaks too fast or very slowly, if he gets angry and gets angry, when you suspect him of lying - there is a high probability that your intuition does not fail you and is a professional seducer.

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Pay attention to how a man acquainted. If he suddenly comes up to the street with an unfamiliar girl, without embarrassment he gives you an ornate compliment - perhaps you have a professional pick-up artist.

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Watch out if already, after about 10 minutesDating a young man proposes to continue it in a more intimate setting. Pikaper can even try to use force or persistently convince you to do exactly what he needs.

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Make certain conclusions, if a man in the course of your communication takes more care of his interests, often glances at his watch, constantly leaves when he is called or to make a call.

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Tell a new friend, for example, about yoursick grandmother, describe everything in detail and emotionally. Look at his reaction - if he expresses sincere sympathy - well, but if he does not care about your problems, here he "smells" a pickup truck.

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Tell the man that you want to introduce him to your parents or brothers (as an option). Appreciate his reaction, if in front of you pikaper, he will find a thousand excuses from such an acquaintance.

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Ask a new acquaintance to lend a decent amount of money. If a man is in love with you, he will offer assistance, the pick-up is unlikely to agree to help you.

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Turn on the intuition, look at the actions of the guyas if from the side. Do something that he does not expect, something that will dramatically knock him out of the scripted script. That is, at least briefly seize the initiative. The pick-up artist has a lot of improvisation and little fear - he is unlikely to be confused, an ordinary person is likely to start worrying.

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Try to understand the main goal of a man whohe puts before himself, communicating with you: if it comes down mainly to sex, before you, most likely, a pick-up. A seriously-minded person first of all will try to understand what kind of person you are, what problems you worry about, etc.

Instructions

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The pickups are mostly engaged in those guys,who want to "revenge" the girls who once rejected. It means that at heart they are insecure people. They act by reading numerous "Encyclopaedias of pickups", so they use standard methods and phrases for dating. Familiarize yourself with these ways to attract attention and interest the girl on specialized websites on the Internet, and you will be able to calculate any novice seducer by the first phrase.

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Manuals of pick-ups consist of a set ofpsychological cliches, to which they attribute the magical power. In fact, attempts to inspire confidence using the method of "mirroring" your gestures and imitating speech characteristics, look unnatural and ridiculous. They cause not trust, but the desire to immediately and unequivocally shave off such a homegrown ladies' man who seems to himself to be a cunning tempter.

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From the same series there will be frequent attemptstouch your hand or shoulder, as if neutral and friendly. The pickup books are filled with such recommendations, which, according to their writers, are designed to establish a certain degree of intimacy with the girl, adjusting her hair or brushing the invisible dust particles from her clothes.

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Pick-ups learn body language and gestures thatpsychologists use in order to learn the thoughts of a person. But the one who is not a professional psychologist, there are no nuances and they are not observant, so they often misinterpret your behavior and feelings. They begin to ask questions of a personal nature, which do not have any sincerity and are inappropriate at this stage of the relationship.

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If after the first date that wasromantic enough, a young man does not even call you for a while, there is an excuse to suspect him, such silence is one of the main receptions of a pickup truck. In addition, on visits he will behave in such a way as to lead you out of himself and, at the same time, he himself will explode for every trifle.

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By refusing to him in sex, you can hear how hecall another girl, arrange a meeting and leave. In the textbooks on pickup it is written that after such a girl again agrees to meet and will never dare to refuse him. Such confidence can also become an indirect sign pick-up truck.

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Experienced tempters, of course, to figure out is much harder. In this case, you should be guided by your intuition and stop the manipulation of yourself, even if you are surrounded by warmth and attention.

Instructions

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In this situation, as a rule, there are two options: either the object of your adoration is free, or he has a girlfriend. Optimal, of course, will be the first option. First, you need to pay attention to the young rights to myself. Reconsider your wardrobe carefully, checking its contents with what modern fashion magazines offer. If you did not find the matches, then immediately go shopping for shopping. It will also be useful to visit a beauty salon, where professionals will take care of your manicure, hair and make-up. Now you can proceed to the next stage - directly to the acquaintance.

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You can get acquainted through mutual acquaintances oron some student's holiday. And do not be afraid to take the initiative first. The main thing, at the first conversation does not seem too intrusive, it's enough just to attract attention to yourself. Try to become for him a mysterious woman, leaving only a few phrases and smiling sweetly, leave.

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Now you just need to keep up with himsome kind of contact. It's good if you have a mutual acquaintance or study in the same institution. Learn more about it and use it when talking. Defeat the young rights his competence in matters of his interest.

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Talking with a young man, listen carefully to him, ask various clarifying questions. Men like a heightened interest in their person. You can even make him a compliment.

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Love is first and foremost a concern for the dear andclose person. Therefore, when your relationship has already begun to improve, think first and foremost about the interests of your loved one. Do not rush things and do not try to look like an ideal couple, let everything go its course.

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If, after all, your lover already hasgirl, you first need to find out how strong and serious their relationship is. After destroying someone's happiness, you are unlikely to build your own. And do not be discouraged if it does not work out, but suddenly it's not your destiny. Just look around, maybe somewhere you are waiting for your real second half.

Instructions

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More humor and positive. Everyone likes people with a good sense of humor, sociable and charming. More often joke and smile. Of course, do not go to extremes and behave like a clown. Anecdotes "in the subject" and a cheerful attitude in trivial situations, a sense of self-irony and optimism make a person invaluable for communication. Do compliments, openly look into your eyes and show sympathy.

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Show your confidence and strength. If in a company of friends someone wants to question your credibility, parry tricks and do not allow disparaging treatment. Do not adjust to the leaders in the group, have everything your own opinion. Show your strength can not be involved in fights, but personal achievements in any sport. People who are passionate about their activities and purposeful always cause respect. Engage actively in sports, learning English or basic programming.

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Show signs of attention. Every girl likes to receive gifts. This does not mean that you need to shower your beloved with roses, gold and diamonds. A beautiful chocolate bar, wild flowers, a small plush toy will perfectly express your attitude and attract attention. Of course, no one abolished the rules of etiquette. Any girl will be pleased when a guy opens the door in front of her and lets him through, escorts to the house, and in the morning he meets at the door. Offer help in solving problems, be interested in how things are going, what's new.

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Find common interests. Learn what a girl does in her spare time, what music she likes to listen to, what films she likes to watch. Invite to the cinema, tell us about the musical novelties. Find out what her hobbies are: gym, swimming pool, tennis or volleyball. Sign up in the same section or suggest somehow together with your friends to host the tournament.

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Take the initiative. Even if a girl strongly likes a guy in most cases, she will not go first to rapprochement, but will wait for steps from her lover. Send her SMS, wondering what she does. Periodically leave comments in social networks, noting the photos you like. Confident girls appreciate themselves highly enough and after a few tokens are not inclined to fall into a hug. If you really like the girl, be persistent. Show interest and prove the seriousness of your intentions: meet and see her again and again, invite to a date and give flowers.

Instructions

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Remember the good old traditions of lovecorrespondence. Buy envelope packaging and send one girl message every day to your girlfriend. In this case, it is not at all necessary that the letter contains only a hot outpouring of feelings towards it. It will be enough if you will share with her in the letter all the joys and difficulties of your life. Describing the joyful events, complain that at that moment she was not there, do not complain about the problems, but simply state the fact of their existence. If you are sincere enough in your messages, then the girl will be interested in you and will reciprocate. In any case, even if your relationship does not go further than correspondence, it will be a wonderful memory for both of you.

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Do not try to "buy" her favor withhelp expensive, tasteless or just indecent gifts (sometimes it's the same thing). Here are just a few examples of such offerings: a gold rose in a crocodile leather case, a Chinese vase on a half-apartment with an engraved "I love you" along the circumference, a car of pink (and any other) color, underwear of any value and style.

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If you invited a girl to a restaurant, thenarrange in advance with the staff or the administration, so that from time to time they include her favorite music. If you decide to invite her to a movie, theater or concert, be guided only by her taste when choosing a program of the evening.

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Give your girlfriend only that herreally interested. Of course, you should not discount the traditional candy-bouquets, but if, for example, your girl likes animals, sometimes instead of chic roses you can give her some accessories with their image or items of equipment for her pets. Thus, the girl will understand that you are attentive not only to her, but also to those to whom she gives her care, and share her hobbies. Similarly, you can give her a disc with the recordings of your favorite band or a book she has been looking for a long time.

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Do not try to play it all the time"A good guy" or, on the contrary, a "crazy pickup". "A good guy" can at best quickly bore a girl, at worst - to give her a lot of complexes about her correspondence to your ideal image. Insolence, assertiveness and unpredictability can even completely alienate it at a safe distance from you. In fact, despite the fact that almost all girls like it, when for the sake of them or before their eyes a young man commits some unexpected deeds, it is very rarely necessary to use pick-up techniques and on the situation.