How to forget a loved one if she is pregnant
How to forget a loved one if she is pregnant
Parting with a beloved man brings a lot of pain to a woman. It is especially difficult to forget a person if you wear a baby under his heart, and then grow your common child.
Instructions
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Remember that your bad mood is transmittedbaby. So try not to focus on parting with your beloved. No matter how painful, you have a person you should take care of for many more years - your child. The appearance of the baby will forever save you from loneliness. To quickly forget a man, take your mind off of him and take care of the baby and yourself.
2
Think about the baby. Soon you will have a baby - a man who will love you, no matter what. For several years you will be the center of the universe for him. Prepare to meet the main person of your life. Make a list of things to buy. Go to the children's shops. Arrange the children's room. Pleasant troubles will distract you from sad thoughts about your beloved.
3
Make a financial plan. For some time after the birth of the baby you will not be able to work. Calculate your savings, make a forecast of spending. Calculate what amounts of benefits you must pay at work, and which in the bodies of social protection. If this money is enough for the next 2-3 years, you do not have to worry about your financial situation. Otherwise, you should find a job online. This way you can work without leaving home.
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Take care of yourself. Visit concerts, performances, museums and exhibitions, which you have been going to go to. In the movie, choose funny light films. In good weather, walk as much as possible. Read the works of your favorite authors. Also, you can buy books on the care of the newborn, the upbringing and development of the child. When you have a baby, there will be almost no time left for all of this.
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Meet with friends. Spend time cheerfully and try not to stay alone for long, so that the thoughts of your beloved do not grab you. You can also find new friends on sites and in communities dedicated to pregnancy and children. Often after dating on the Internet, women meet in real life. So you will find, with whom to discuss issues related to the baby, and in the future, perhaps, your children will become buddies.
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Tell your loved one about your situation. Even if you broke up, he should know that he will soon become a father. The daddy and the kid have the right to communicate with each other, even if the relationship between the parents is over.
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For several years you can devote yourself only tobaby, without being distracted by the care of a man. Do not despair. In the future, you can meet a man who will love you and become a real father to the child.
