What to do if parents do not want to give blessings
Throughout our life, we needthe blessing of parents. We are waiting for approval, when we take the most important decisions - choose a profession, career or life partner. Not always the opinion of parents coincides with ours. They have their reasons, arguments and arguments. What should you do to insist on your right to decide your own destiny and live with your loved one?
Parental disapproval. Causes
The most obvious and independent from your elector the chosen one is the reason - a young age when you have not finished your education, you do not have a stable income, there is no own housing, and there are only prospects. Either they do not know him, do not know his family and the past. Either on the contrary, they know too well the details of turbulent youth or terrible genetic diseases, or criminal past, or sadistic inclinations and bad habits. Despite the fact that we live in the 21st century, parents can be against your marriage with a foreigner, a person of another race and confession.Your actions
Listen to your parents in any way, withoutemotions without interrupting. Analyze the reasons for their disapproval of your choice. If not everything is clear, explain to your family why you need it. Give them more information about the relationship with your partner: where and how you met, describe your common interests, life priorities and goals, tell about your girl's or boy's family, persuade them to meet. Suppose that your companion in the past had a negative experience - alcohol , drugs, conviction. Think about yourself, is it worth it to play a candle, do you want to risk yourself, and then your children. Perhaps, not being excited, it is necessary to accept the point of view of parents. Miracles do not happen, "if in the first act there is a gun on the stage, then in the last one it will necessarily shoot." However, if your love is unbreakable, and you are not going to change decisions under any circumstances, talk again with your parents. In such a situation, you will constantly need to talk, prove, represent the positive qualities of your lover or lover. Chances are that, reluctantly, parents will bless you. And it is so great that you will not be blessed and you will have to live in a state of discomfort. You decide. In case you want to marry a foreigner, you also need to weigh the pros and cons. The difference between cultures, traditions, rituals, everyday features - all these are, rather, minuses in making a decision. However, love is a plus, which outweighs everything listed above. Prove to your parents that your chosen one or your chosen one is good, tell us why you fell in love with them, develop all their fears. And most importantly, to get the parents' blessing, support and protection, do not start a war, do not talk rudely, do not insist without explaining the reasons. Be respectful and convince them of the correctness of their choice.
