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"I was once a strange, toy nameless"

At the very beginning of the relationship, one must clearly understand thatto fashion something desirable from the chosen one does not work. Neither re-educate nor criticize. And to give an individuality, which it does not seem to him, is generally ridiculous. Therefore, it is important to fall in love with a not invented ideal, such a standard from the future, but quite a real person. There is a very simple and wise idea "a horse should be in apples, and not a prince." At the same time, it is important to remember that in man there is both bad and good. It matters, which is more.

"I look at you like in a mirror"

Whatever is said about the magnetism of the antipodes,girls and a guy should be the point of contact. Common interests, friends, hobbies, views - it does not matter. Otherwise, life will turn into existence in parallel worlds. If a young man can only talk about himself, but do not listen if he can not be approached, lean back and complain that the shoes are tight, if he does not penetrate and pat on the head, he will not become that notorious stone wall. Nail girl herself and will kill if necessary, and earn money, and even spend them wisely. But the sense of support and understanding on the part of a loved one is dear. When evaluating a guy he likes, it's not out of place to find out his attitude to his mother. It's trite, but it's a reflection of his manner of communication and with the rest of the fair sex. The guy should respect and appreciate the girl. Be courteous, polite and do not forget about trust in relationships. If a guy knows how to admit mistakes or that he does not know something, if he knows how to accept help, that's fine. Of course, perseverance and the desire for independence are great. But not reckless. No matter how jubilant the emancipated Europeans, the presence of a man's opinion, the feeling that he is not a slave and can lead him, is priceless. If the guy only absorbs, absorbs sponge, but gives nothing in return and only blindly agrees to someone's ideas, not bothering himself with imagination and inventing his own, it is worth considering "what will he then give the children how to cope with their infantilism?". Not less important is the property, like ease of climb. With an avid stay-at-home, there may be a feeling of a cell pressing four walls. And if he starts to be jealous of the girl to her trips somewhere alone - it's quite a disaster. Therefore, the love of travel and the desire for recognition and novelty (without fanaticism) are quite important qualities. Mind, intelligence, erudition. If all this is in the guy, he will never be ashamed. If this all combines with a good taste, a sense of style and a vision of beauty, then, as they say, "wrap, I take!". Of course, every girl has her own ideals and criteria, which must certainly be with the chosen one. Do not forget only that in the set with them, there are sometimes shortcomings.

Handsome, passionate, loving and kind. All these qualities should be in your future spouse, but how to choose a guy for an easy romantic relationship in the present tense? What kind of cavalier do you need? Handsome macho or vice versa, a cute young man, versed in music and art? Or have not you decided yet?

Spark

If you have a few men in mind, and youDo not know which of them to choose, think what attracted you to each of them. Maybe with one of them you communicate because of the gallant attitude towards women, with another because of a cheerful nature, and with the third you do not even know why, just once, when you saw each other for the first time, a spark suddenly ran through you. He may not be handsome, silent or grumbling, but when you think about him, you are breathtaking. Dreaming of love and strong emotions? Then without thinking choose the last applicant, because it attracts you.

Trust your mind and common sense, they will not be deceived

If you do not want to rely on only onefeelings, and also use common sense, then you better find a partner among men like you. Usually, these are people with the same interests and goals, most often from one social circle. But immediately it is worth noting that such a man may soon bore you, since both of you are very similar. To avoid such an unpleasant situation, some hobbies, views on life and character traits should be different for you.

Soul mate

And, maybe you have a male friend? You understand each other with a half-word, he knows you the way you really are, you do not have to pretend to be a fatal woman. And maybe he is the only one? Now it seems to you that this is something terrible, but if it is free, you get along so well with each other, why not try to start a more intimate and intimate relationship? Problems come from childhood. All problems start from childhood. Some psychologists say that women subconsciously seek a partner, similar to their father. So, if in the childhood you do not have a relationship with your dad, and with men there can be some problems. And as you know, every problem has its own solution. Can not you handle it yourself? Then consult a specialist, because nothing should stop you on the path to love and happiness!

What is good?

In order to find your ideal, you need tofirst turn to yourself. The best young man should only be the best girl. Therefore, constant self-improvement will increase the bar when searching for a suitor. In addition, the knowledge of a foreign language, the basics of massage or a couple of specialties will become a tempting "hook" when catching a decent fish. Do not forget about your own appearance. Who knows, maybe fate will be around the corner of the neighboring building or appear on the way for bread? And, if a respectable young man in a stylish suit and a fashionable watch equals mademoiselle in stretched exercises, it is unlikely that there will be mutual love at first sight. In order not to become confused and, roughly speaking, not cheap, you need to think ahead of the details of the best man in the world. Only it is important to highlight what really plays a significant role, and what is the concomitant criterion, a pleasant addition. Folding in the head of such a picture, it will be easier at the first acquaintance to objectively evaluate the potential second half. For example, if the position is important and prosperity, the search should be conducted on fashionable corporations or among the corresponding acquaintances. If the form is important, and not the content - a direct road to fitness centers. And in search of a highly organized nature, an intellectual and an erudite one can go to exhibitions and to the theater. Such primitive logic often works, if, of course, do not hope for the case. When the acquaintance took place, it is important to assess whether the young man is worthy of further attention, or will later have to write it off to the "mistakes of youth". If you want a caring and kind, just look at how he reacts to the children in the park. If the economy is important and you are ready to help, you can drop the phrase casually about the broken shelf and look at the reaction. And if the key criterion of the relationship is his attitude toward the chosen one, you just have to look at his attitude to his own mother. Often in order to find a worthy guy, it's enough just to be able to look at people, soberly assess their actions and be a little psychologist, in general, every girl.

What is bad?

There are several tips "from the reverse." If, for example, there is a risk of falling into the network of an overly loving young man, it is hardly worthwhile to "lure" him with an outspoken appearance. And in clubs there is rarely a real love with a lot of positive qualities. If you do not want to feel yourself in the future, then play blonde, according to the worst stereotypes, do not: why look helpless than there really is? The most important thing is to remember that he should not choose, he should love the girl the way she is. But what she is ready to become by the time of acquaintance and who will allow herself to love is another matter.