Tip 1: How to raise an ideal man
Tip 1: How to raise an ideal man
Here are some tips on how to properly raise a real man from a son. They are useful if you can not decide on the right direction in your education.
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An example for a boy should be a father or anyanother man, worthy of being this very example. There is no such thing in the environment? Invent it. An example for imitation can be found in fairy tales, films or cartoons. Just do not forget to filter the list of heroes. It is better to do without modern fighters and comics. Ideal idols will be musketeers and knights - the main fighters for truth. Why a man? It's not about the maternity of a woman, but about the fact that men and women place different priorities in upbringing. Men encourage curiosity.
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The boy should feel like a man. Buy him the appropriate toys. All of his things should be calm colors, because bright - it's for girls. Accustom a child to homework, he should at least try to score a nail on his own. And not just so, but exactly when it will be necessary.
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The father owes his example to teach his son to communicate with women. The boy must be a gentleman. Helping girls to carry weights, open doors before them.
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During the transition period, the child should befull trust was rendered. Let some decisions take their own. Of course, not all of them will be correct, but the opportunity must be given necessarily, because that's how he will learn to be responsible.
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Be sure to praise your son, only without fanaticism. Remind the child that he is brave and determined, brave and strong. Even if he does not have these qualities, thanks to your support, they will develop in him.
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You be feminine and gentle, weak and defenseless. Looking at you, the child will have a general impression of women. He will understand that the opposite sex needs to be loved and protected.
Tip 2: How to make an ideal father out of a husband
Any man must be prepared for the birth of a child. Tips on how to raise an ideal father.
Instructions
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The period of pregnancy should be perceived asthe happiest of moments in the life of the couple. Do so that your man perceives your condition as something wonderful, extraordinarily joyful. Do not under the influence of stereotypes about the caprice of pregnant women in every way to annoy her husband, make the night run to the store for ice cream, without any reason to take offense, referring to hormones. Behave naturally, try to enjoy this moment with your spouse. Talk about the baby, spend more time together.
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It's great when a man shows interest, toall that is associated with pregnancy and the birth of a baby. Keep him in this hunt. It is possible to resemble courses together, read relevant literature, watch a special video. Let your husband become a full participant. Just do not insist that the husband was present during labor, as this can serve as a real psychological trauma for a man.
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Together, prepare the house, before the baby. Make a list of everything you need, go shopping, let your husband participate in the choice of clothes and things for the child. Consult your husband about the best way to arrange children's furniture.
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If a man does not stroke his belly, he does not speak withchild, do not focus on this. Asking, or demanding to show sensuality is wrong. This will cause unpleasant emotions in a man. This behavior does not mean that a man does not love you and does not expect the birth of a child. Perhaps he has not yet adapted to the situation, or otherwise perceives the situation. Give him time, do not be offended and do not cry.
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When the baby is born, do not limithis communication with his father. Even if a man clumsily holds a child, slowly and awkwardly cares for him, still praise, encourage her husband. He should contact the child as much as possible. Ask him to help you with bathing the baby, placing emphasis on his strong hands that will not drop the baby. Over time, the young pope will have a knack, any worries about the child, he will perform dexterously and quickly.
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Encourage, praise a man for the slightest good luck andpromotion. Thank him for what he gave you the greatest happiness in the world, because the role of men in the planning of the child, his birth is important, evaluate its significance.
Tip 3: Waiting for the perfect man
Woman, having seen enough films about love andHaving read fairy tales, in his imagination creates the image of an ideal man endowed with character traits: masculinity, sensitivity, honesty and so on. But it is unlikely to meet such a man.
Since childhood, women paint the image of their hero. A man must have a tight figure, excellent external data. A perfect man and courteous, and charming, caring, gallant, tactful, attentive, possesses an acute mind, a fine sense of humor and a connoisseur of female beauty. It feels masculine and powerful. Naturally, on the first lines of the list of the male ideal is the ability to earn money and generosity. And almost every woman tries to try on such a list of conditions for men who are in her close environment. As a result, it turns out that no one is suitable for these parameters. Each applicant has some flaws. And how to find the ideal man? You can wait for him for years, so on the path of life and not meeting. But more often it happens that a woman expects an ideal, but falls in love with absolutely not a perfect man. Certainly, it can correspond to any points of requirements of the ideal man, while the other features of the character a woman in him will educate herself. Only this erroneous error. It can happen that a lady will fall in love with a man attractive outwardly, but she is talkative. Since love is blind, the woman does not notice actions confirming words. She completely trusts her perfection. As a result, after the marriage, the woman opens her eyes, she sees that not a single promise has been fulfilled, such a man does not want and does not like to work, and is not fit for family life at all. Then comes the realization that other qualities should be possessed by an ideal person: the ability to manage the economy on a par with his wife and earn money, to be a loving and caring father for his children. Often, failure to comply with such conditions will lead to the dissolution of marriage. On the other hand, a wise woman is able to help her man become ideal for her. To do this, you need to be patient, even if a man with a task assigned to him does poorly or does not do it at all, to praise him for the achieved heights. It is even better to cheer your man up and say that you believe in him. Then a man after a certain period of time can become for you a perfect husband.
Tip 4: The ideal husband: who is he?
Even in childhood, the fair sex representatives begin to imagine the image of a future husband. Ideals of husbands from young ladies are often completely different. Nevertheless, they also have common features.
