How to move from mother-in-law
How to move from mother-in-law
It is better to love your mother from a distance. And the more this distance is greater, the love is stronger. Stories about how the daughter-in-law and mother-in-law lived together happily ever after - one in a million.
Instructions
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Do not rush with hasty decisions onabout the move. First, try to establish relationships with your mother-in-law. If she brought up such a beautiful man - your husband, then certainly there are positive qualities in it. A mother-in-law can take her daughter-in-law with bayonets if she feels threatened by her long-established existence. After the wedding, she is forced to share the love of her son, who used to belong only to her, to another woman. Maybe your mother-in-law is just afraid of being alone and feeling unnecessary. Try to convey to her the thought that she does not lose her son, but on the contrary - she also gets a daughter.
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If your attempts to establish a relationship with a bangfailed - look for a separate home. There is a certain category of mother-in-law, which can please only a woman with the appearance of Jessica Alba, the brains of Sophia Kovalevskaya and the salary of Elvira Nabiullina. All the rest will obviously be unworthy of her precious little son. Do you spend the whole day in the kitchen? You cook some nonsense, which is harmful to the stomach. Do not you approach the stove at all? Laziness, which wants to kill the hunger of her husband. From such mother-in-law it is necessary to leave.
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The most important thing is to convince you of the need to movehusband. It's not recommended to ask a question - either mom or I - by the edge. Do not make hysterics and scandals, do not complain, do not cut and do not threaten with divorce. He is the head of the family, and he must make the decision on moving independently. Your task is to put this right decision in his head.
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Rainy prospects for the husbandliving in a separate apartment. Copy into the notebook the secret recipes for pies and cutlets, which his mother prepares so wonderfully, and promise to cook them regularly. Seduce your husband with promises of enchanting sex in your own cozy crib. Tell that to fulfill all his sexual fantasies you are hampered only by the presence of his mamuli behind the wall. The main thing is that he wants to move and personally reported this to his mother.
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Try to convince your mother-in-law that she will be betterlive without you. The task is not easy, but it's worth trying. If she is lonely, but relatively young, she can arrange her personal life. She will have time for her hobbies. No one will stop her from watching her favorite TV shows and talk shows. She will not have to cook at all. To part with your mother-in-law is not worth it. After all, she is the mother of your husband and the grandmother of your children. Promise to visit her every weekend or invite yourself to visit.
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Reduce your own expenses if you live withmother-in-law from material considerations. Think about what's more important to you - a new dress or personal space. Find a higher-paying job, do not give up work. Study the real estate market, find out the conditions for obtaining mortgages in different banks. Look for a rented apartment through friends, maybe the option will turn up with a fabulously low rent. Do not sit idly by. Let the husband see your activity and catch it. If you are sitting in a decree, look for work at home. It will be more difficult financially, but it's easier emotionally.