Is it worth it to have a second child
Is it worth it to have a second child
Almost all married couples think about the second child. Many questions arise immediately. Is it worth it to have a second child?
Instructions
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First of all, it is worthwhile to think about allThe difficulties that will arise with the advent of a second child. The financial side of the issue is one of the main. Think about whether your family budget can overpower the second baby. If the second pregnancy too much exacerbates the material condition of the family, this can lead to frequent friction and quarrels between the spouses, the family will feel the tension. But if you look, on the other hand, then using partial savings, using the things that were purchased for the first child, you can cope with the appearance of a second baby without obvious material stress.
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It is necessary to consider the health of bothSpouses. Does the woman's health safely transfer the second pregnancy, given the age and individual characteristics, so that there are no pathologies and unpleasant consequences for the mother and child. A man should be sure that he is ready for a new load, additional material costs, as well as moral and physical factors. Caring for two children requires the constant participation of both mother and father.
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To everyone was comfortable, as well as newbaby, you need to consider whether there is enough room in your home for all family members. Perhaps you need to do some redevelopment of the house, rearrangement of furniture, the main thing is that all family members can comfortably accommodate and coexist normally. This will help to avoid friction in the family and other problems associated with the lack of personal space for everyone.
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It is necessary to properly prepare an older childto the appearance of another baby. At the age of up to three years, children can not fully perceive the fact of the appearance of a brother or sister. This causes jealousy in the child, children can not coexist happily and happily. We must constantly give time to the firstborn, so that he does not feel deprivation of parental love and care. The child should be positively tuned in advance for the appearance of a second baby.
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Decide on the second childshould both spouse. Weigh all the pros and cons, none of the married couple should have doubts and uncertainties. The solution should be mutual, the second one should be wanted by both father and mother. In this case, the family will have a healthy interaction and support.
