Tip 1: How to express intention
Tip 1: How to express intention
Sometimes it's hard to share with your close peoplefeelings, problems and feelings, or tell them about the decision taken, plans for the future. However, there are ways that will help you easily and without shocks tell your relatives or people who like it about their intentions.
Instructions
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If you are planning to tell a loved onesomething serious, try to prepare him in advance for the future conversation, so that he was not stunned by what he heard. To do this, tell him in advance that you want to talk with him. You can also indicate the topic of the conversation. Choose the time and place of the meeting, which will be convenient for both of you.
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Immediately before the conversation trybring your thoughts in order. Scroll through the mind the words that you are going to say. If you have a bad memory, or you are worried, make a short speech plan.
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If you do not differ in straightforwardness, firsthint to your relative or close person about the subject of the conversation. Perhaps the topic will be continued from him. Support the conversation, do not be silent at all. Communicating with people, you need to achieve maximum openness.
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Explain why you want to make a specific decision. Give logical or emotional reasons and justifications. If the interlocutor does not agree with the voiced the intention, ask him to enter your position,to feel the thoughts that overcome you. Tell me about your desires, but do not forget to learn about what the other side wants. It is important that your dreams and future plans coincide.
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If you find it difficult to tell about your desires whenface-to-face meeting, try to do this on the phone. Call the dear person and tell us about your plans. Try to understand from the emotional reaction, whether she had to like the sounded solution.
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It is even easier to express intention in writing. And with the help of modern technologies, you can do this even anonymously, for example, by sending an e-mail via the Internet. If the message touches the addressee, you will soon find out his opinion on this matter.
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Do not worry if your decision was not supported by the other party. Try to change the behavioral tactics or distract yourself to some other things and problems.
Tip 2: Recognize without consequences: how to express intention
You probably have faced such a situation,when at the sight of a certain person you have feelings of euphoria, everything is immediately confused in your head, and butterflies fly in the belly. If so, you felt the first signs of falling in love.
Sympathy or love?So, you decided that you fell in love. But all the same you need to think, love - what is this feeling? After all, love is quite serious. Sometimes it's very difficult to distinguish love from ordinary sympathy. Sympathy is a feeling when you like the appearance of a person, his forms, facial features, eyes, smile, that is all that you can see with your own eyes. Love is a feeling when in a person you like everything. You are sure that he has no shortcomings. Later this feeling grows into true love. If you all have thought about and understood that you are ready for something more than simple correspondence and calls, start acting. But before you tell a person about your feelings, you need to know that these are not empty words, and they have really serious consequences. Recognition Sooner or later you will simply get tired of giving a person compliments, caring for him, you will want to move to a new level, be loved ones and give their love. Recognition of love is a rather painful process that can last for weeks, months. It all depends on your determination. You will prepare a speech for a long time, think over every little thing that will happen to you at this exciting moment. It is best not to delay this issue, since while you are waiting for that moment, next to your second half, someone may appear who will be ahead of you. Know that ideally you still will not do anything, because you can not think through all the most important details. The main thing - do not be too intrusive, because such people quickly get bored. Offer an item of your adoration meeting. If a person can not do this at a certain time, just say what you write to him later. When you still agree on a date, you will expect it with impatience, counting the days. Then, about an hour before the meeting, you will feel the excitement and, the closer you are to the meeting, the more your excitement grows. Despite the feeling of panic, in any case, do not give up the date. Nobody likes indecisive people, because they are unreliable. The fact that you will be nervous - it's all natural, the words will be confused, everything will go around in your head. In order not to worry so much, take a deep breath and start counting the numbers. Be brave and tell the person about your feelings and intentions. Do it calmly, without unnecessary emotions. After you express your feelings, you will clearly feel better. Just be prepared for the fact that you may not be given your consent to a relationship, because it does not always happen that a person feels responsive to you. First, prepare the ground for conversation. Start talking with some introductory phrase so that you do not suddenly disabuse the interlocutor. For sure, if you do everything correctly and carefully, a person will not give a negative reaction to your proposal. If, after meeting a person, you immediately tell him: "I love you and I want to be with you," confused, he can answer you with a definite "no" or even say a lot of different nonsenses. Remember that whatever your confession is, it is important keep yourself in hand. Having managed with yourself, you can fully control the situation and avoid unpleasant consequences after telling about your intentions.
Tip 3: The husband does not want to have a baby: how to make him
Decision on Birth child Both spouses must accept, but men less than women tend to procreate. Instead of scandal and quarrel, by cunningly make him want a baby.
Instructions
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Respect his opinion. Even if you are strongly upset by the position Husband, do not make scandals, do not blackmailman and do not throw cruel words. The birth of a child is a serious step and it takes some time to decide on it. You can help your husband by pushing to make the right decision.
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Do not try to get pregnant, thinking "thenwill get used to. " A great burden of responsibility, falling on an unprepared man, can encourage him to leave the family. And if it remains, the idea of an "unwanted" child can pursue it for a long time.
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Find out the reasons why he does not want children. For the standard excuses about lack of money and unavailability, a hidden reason is often hidden. It may be insecurity, fear of being forgotten by a loved one or a serious intention to never have children. In each case, you need to find an individual approach, pick up the right words and save the man from his fears.
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Go with your husband to visit, where there are children. Agree with friends who already have a child that you visit them. Guess the time when the baby is in a good mood, not naughty and set to communicate. Men communicate more easily with grown-up children, aged 3-4 years. After talking with the baby, after talking with his father, your husband can himself want to have a child.
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Get the support of family and friends. Parents of men can express the desire to be understood with grandchildren. Talk to his family, ask for help, perhaps their opinion will be decisive.
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Hurry it up. If the cause of procrastination is unavailability, remind your husband about his biological clock. Every year he grows older, health problems appear. To conceive a healthy and strong baby is easier at a young age.
Tip 4: How to fall in love with the woman of your dreams
Quite infrequently, and sometimes only once in a lifetimethe man meets the woman of his dreams. After this comes a difficult period of courtship for his passion. Patience and the desire to be always next to your beloved will help you win her heart.
Instructions
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Do not suffer from unrequited love. First of all, you need to be brave and talk with a woman who you like. It is unlikely that she will laugh at you in response or rude. Most likely, the girl will be glad that you showed interest in her. Try to behave confidently, do not hesitate and firmly express the intention to meet the girl once again in a more situational setting. Politely ask a new friend to give you her phone number so you can call and chat at another time.
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Show yourself on the first date andtry to make the woman feel sympathy for you. Communicate with her on interesting topics, find out what she likes, what she likes. Try to form for her her ideal man and follow it in the future. Important is your creative ability when choosing a place for a date. It should not be banal and moderately romantic, so that the girl began to seriously consider you as a potential boyfriend.
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Admire the woman as often as possible. If you are already feeling for her, it will be much easier for you to express your sympathy to her. At the same time, reinforce your words with beautiful deeds. Help the girl to study or work, get in touch with her and discuss the current affairs, agree on new meetings. Thanks to these actions, a woman will need you and will miss you more and more, which will lead to feelings for you.
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Tell a woman that you love her as soon as youthere will come a suitable moment. Doing this is only necessary when, in your opinion, she is already experiencing feelings for you and awaiting recognition. If you did everything right, she would definitely reciprocate. In any case, do not despair and continue to seek her heart in all possible ways.
