How to make, that he called the first
How to make, that he called the first
Waiting for a phone call from the person you likethe young man is very exhausted. If he hesitates, and the phone is silent for a long time, unpleasant thoughts begin to appear in your head and the mood spoils. To shorten the waiting time, do everything to make it call first.
Instructions
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Immediately let him know that you will not callfirst. If you mutually exchanged numbers, he can passively wait for you from the first step. So let's understand that you love strong guys who are capable of showing initiative. At parting, add that you will wait for his call.
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Do everything to have a desireto call. To do this, you need to find common interests and create ease in communication. Laugh, joke, support the conversation, and if the guy can not think of anything to talk about, fill the pause in the conversation.
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Be easier that the young man is not afraid to call you. Do not play the role of a snow queen, answering his questions monosyllabically and arrogantly. Men are also scared and embarrassed at their first date, so help him at least with a smile.
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Engage in visualization. Sometimes it helps to sit down and in detailed details imagine how he calls, and then you talk. The main thing is to clearly see this picture and in the colors to present the entire conversation from beginning to end. When you really want something, the universe gets a boost and tries to do it.
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Remind him of yourself with a small sms message. It is not necessary to write an ardent and emotional letter. A short message is enough to express your disposition and remind you of a pleasant pastime. For example, "thank you for yesterday evening" or neutral "with a good morning." So you will not be too intrusive, but show the guy that he can not be afraid to call - he is happy.
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If you added it to a social network, you canunobtrusively recall yourself. Click on the heart next to his post or in his photo. Change your avatar so that it appears in the news feed.
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Call first. Sometimes you can drop shyness and dial the number of a man. After all, silence does not always mean that you do not like it - it could lose your phone or it has a negative balance. If the reaction is not pleasant, you can always say that you just check whose unsigned number is.
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And when he calls after a long silence, notyou need to break down and express everything that you thought this time. Keep emotions under control, talk as usual. If you are overcome with doubts and curiosity, after a while jokingly ask "by the way, and what for so long from you there was no call?". But you do not need to express your claims, accusing a young man of indifference. If you are familiar recently, such aggressive tactics can scare the guy and this will be his last call.
