How to keep the peace in a family relationship
How to keep the peace in a family relationship
More recently, it was thought that problems related to family life can, and most importantly, need to be discussed; that after long discussions it is necessary to come to a common solution that would suit both sides.
Today, having conducted modern research, scientists argue that the discussion of the problem does not lead to improvement, but to deterioration of relations in the family.
Naturally, what is meant is excessivediscussion of petty family problems, which, if you do not talk about it for hours, will forget in a few hours. Usually the discussion does not begin to affect the problem itself, but the partner's shortcomings, listing of reproaches and various claims. In this case, as a rule, the conversation is conducted on high tones.
However, scientists warn against extreme measuresof the opposite nature: if for a long time to accumulate negative emotions in themselves, then sooner or later they will necessarily break out. The situation may get out of hand, and the result may not be very pleasant to you. The scientists conducted a huge number of various studies on this topic and found that here, as in most problems, one must adhere to the so-called golden mean. If your husband's behavior offends you, do not be silent, tell him about it!
However, it is also not necessary to discuss each other's minuses and shortcomings every day, this obviously will not lead to a positive result.
Understand that a truly wise woman shouldto understand that it is impossible to completely change a man, a poet should reconcile himself to some of his shortcomings. Try to pay more attention to positive moments, and life will become much easier.
