How the family constellation method works
How the family constellation method works
The method of alignment means a purposeful awareness of the deepest causes of his family conflicts. The way a person places his position on the people around him determines the situation in many ways.
People tend to take on other people's roles. It would seem in your family there was no betrayal, but the feeling of jealousy is still present. This phenomenon is quite acceptable. If in your life there was a moment when you observed this situation with the example of parents, relatives, friends, then most likely you unconsciously reproduce it in your life. The cases of lack of balance of love between spouses in some cases lead to sad consequences. The method of alignment shows that the child, being subjected to violence by one parent, reimburses the love of the second, not fully endowed. If the relationship hierarchy is violated, you can also use the family constellation method. When you divorce, parents often have no interest in the child. Solving their own conflicts, they forget about raising a child. Parents do not hesitate to ask their child for advice on solving family difficulties. Thus, the child becomes one step higher than the adult. Such a change of roles can lead to a decrease in self-esteem and self-confidence of parents, as well as to a decrease in academic performance and psychological discomfort of the child. Sometimes even physiological problems are solved by the arrangement method. If one of the spouses becomes less, the second will start gaining weight as a balance. The same applies to the level of efficiency. With the hyperactivity of one spouse, the second in order to achieve a balance will stop going to work and doing business.
