How to behave with her husband's mistress
How to behave with her husband's mistress
Even a calm, cold-blooded woman for surewill be shocked to learn that her husband has a mistress. What can I say about temperamental, emotional ladies. A deceived wife is often tempted to teach a rival a lesson, even to assault. Humanly this is understandable. But you still have to make adjustments in your life.
Instructions
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If you want to keep a family, you needcalm down and decide: how to behave with her husband's mistress, in order to win a victory over her? The main rule: do not go on about the emotions! Emotions can push you to actions that will harm you. Therefore, no matter how hard, try to pull yourself together.
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Do not go down so that physicallydeal with her husband's mistress. First, it is simply unworthy of a civilized person. Secondly, it can prove to be stronger, and then you will suffer, and her actions will be regarded as legitimate self-defense. Thirdly, you can be held criminally liable. Finally, you will look in the eyes of the husband with a vicious jealous hysterical woman.
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You should not also denigrate your mistress,spreading slander about it. And especially do not try to pity her, reproaching that she is breaking up the family. Even if the mistress experiences embarrassment, awkwardness, she is unlikely to decide to disconnect from your husband. After all, a woman dreams of personal happiness. In addition, it can parry your reproaches, complaints with an irresistible argument: "It's your own fault, it would be good for your husband, he would not change you!"
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Defeat her mistress with her own weapon. Try to find the answer to the main question: why did the betrayal of a husband happen, in which the mistress is better than you? Honestly and impartially evaluate your appearance, analyze your behavior (including in the intimate sphere of life). Even if the mistress is younger and more beautiful than you - do not despair, you can still fix it.
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If your figure is "blurred", get busyexercise, adjust the diet, removing from the diet of fatty foods, sweets. Choose an original hairstyle, makeup, update the wardrobe. Resolutely abandon the shapeless gowns and raznoshennyh home slippers, even if they are very convenient. The husband should again see in you an interesting, beautiful woman.
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If you have always been intimatejust as a matrimonial debt, it is not surprising that her husband got a mistress. Try to behave in bed more relaxed, free. Find and read the literature on sex techniques, whenever possible go to a consultation with a sex therapist.
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If you were too demanding, overbearing,captious, "suppressed" her husband, make cardinal adjustments to her behavior. Watch yourself, try to become more calm, compliant, benevolent. And then sooner or later the husband will make a choice between you and your mistress in your favor.
