How to behave after a divorce
How to behave after a divorce
To date, almost every familya couple who lives in a marriage has various problems that very often cause a divorce. And this applies not only to young families who have signed "for stupidity," "for pregnancy," or for some other reason, but also for families who have lived long marital lives.
Preservation of friendly relations
On how to avoid divorce, you can talkconstantly and useless. It is necessary to clearly and clearly identify the causes, circumstances and adequately assess the situation. If people went to sign papers on divorce, it means that there are reasons for that. But if it is inevitable, but you need to try to maintain a normal relationship. More often than not, women decide to divorce, they experience this process a little easier than men. For men, a divorce is a loss of property, that is, of a woman.
Lost interest to each other
If the divorce decision is based on thisproblem, then you should not change it. There is no need to torture yourself and start living separately, people should be able to face the truth and make categorical decisions. It is not necessary to confuse the loss of feelings with a difficult period of relationships, which lovers are experiencing the place. If you do not have any feelings for your second half, then at least respect for the person with whom you lived for a while in one house and fell asleep in one bed should be present. Therefore, in the next six months, it is not worth starting a new relationship or at least not advertising it. From the outside, you might think that the cause of the divorce was treason.
Children
When divorced, the main thing is to preserve the child's psyche andnormal attitude to each of the parents. That is, the child must be protected from quarrels and scandals, which influenced the decision to divorce. Try to explain to the child what the reason is, if both parents are present during the conversation. If someone talks to the child about this, do not say bad things about the other parent, because the child's relationship to him may not change, but to you it will change for the worse. You need to be able to maintain your credibility and dignity.
