How to shower compliments
How to shower compliments
The easiest way to express your sympathy is throughcompliment. The main thing is that it should be relevant: not too vulgar, suitable to the situation and, of course, unobtrusive. Correctly submitted a compliment, can arrange to itself almost any person and adjust it to positive communication.
Instructions
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Determine for yourself what you want to doa compliment to the person you are interested in. It does not have to be words. A compliment can be a look, a smile or something tangible, for example, flowers. Think in advance in what circumstances and how the compliment will be presented.
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Be careful. Think about whether your attention will not offend the one to whom the compliment is intended. An inappropriate situation or a person's bad mood may not be at all convenient and prevent proper perception of praise or compliment. Try to make a compliment not to the person himself, but to his unique qualities that you liked. Such compliments are perceived much softer and in case of an unsuccessful attempt, the probability of smoothing a bad impression is much higher.
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When dealing with a person,what qualities he himself identifies in himself and what he is proud of. If you accurately grasp the details of what he considers valuable, then such a compliment will be invaluable in his eyes. Be sincere. Compliment from a pure heart is much more valuable than memorized phrases. Your chosen one will note the difference between falsehood and disinterested sincerity, in favor of sincerity. If you know a person well and are friendly with him, then you can give freedom to fantasy and creativity, it will be appreciated, like everything unique in this world.
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Honor the skill. The more you make compliments and rehearse, the better they will become. You can only look at a person to see what needs to be emphasized and attention. It is very important literacy of speech and the construction of proposals for a compliment. Do not try to decorate it as much as possible, thereby overloading with numerous turns and excess of emotions. An individually selected short compliment, said sincerely, will hook and attract attention.
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It is necessary to distinguish compliments of personal and businesscharacter. A compliment of a business nature should be a little reserved and aimed at the business qualities of a person, whereas a personal one, on the contrary, can be emotional and sensual.
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Be ready to hear a compliment, andif any, take it with dignity. Briefly thank the interlocutor, thereby showing respect to him. Watch your facial expressions. It is advisable to have a kindly expression during a compliment. Smile and be polite.
