How to forgive his wife a one-time betrayal
How to forgive his wife a one-time betrayal
Treason is a severe psychological shockfor man. Perhaps you have been married for several years already, you even have common children. And your wife is committing this terrible act. You are shocked and do not know how to live further, how to build relationships with a once-beloved wife. Most likely, you do not want to dissolve the marriage, because you still love your soul mate. There are several tips that will help you forgive a one-time betrayal of his wife.
Instructions
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If you learned that the wife once mistakenand has changed you, do not make hasty decisions. It will be better if you leave for a couple of days and will not be at this time to communicate with your spouse. This will help you bring your thoughts in order, understand your feelings, and then take the only correct decision. Talk to your lawful wife. Ask her to explain the reasons for her deed, repent of her deed. If the spouse does it sincerely and with all her heart, perhaps, after a while you will be able to forgive her.
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Think about the reasons for treason. Perhaps it's partly your fault, and so are you? This is possible if you paid insufficient attention to your spouse, did not show your feelings, spent little time with her together. Understand that women need not only periodic manifestations of love, but also attention, understanding and affection. Perhaps, it is because of your indifference and indifference that your wife found them in another man, without waiting for you to do so. But, of course, wine can lie on your beloved wife. Having succumbed to a passing fad, the fair-sex woman fell into the arms of a handsome man. But think, maybe they are not connected at all with such serious and strong feelings as they have connected you to your spouse. Most likely, it was just physical contact.
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It is very important to think about your common children. If you can not decide what to do with your spouse, you must put yourself in the shoes of your children, think about how hard it will be to accept the divorce of your parents. Perhaps it is worth keeping the family at least for their sake.
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Do not think about vengeance! To start intrigues on the side in response to women's betrayal is the main mistake of men. It does not help you to strengthen the marriage, but it will only destroy it.
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Believe only yourself. You can not blindly follow the advice of your close friends and just acquaintances. Of course, you can listen to them, but you still need to listen to yourself first.
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Even after you learned about the treason withthe side of your beloved, lead a calm and ordinary way of life. Have fun, socialize with friends, go to work. This will help you to get distracted from gloomy thoughts and how easy it is to survive betrayal.
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Select the recommendations you need and followthem. But never forget to make such important decisions yourself and listen only to your mind. Know how to forgive your loved ones, but always be faithful to them.
