How to forgive a husband-traitor
How to forgive a husband-traitor
If, after the betrayal of her husband, you decided to live peacefully and save the family, these tips will help to cope with this difficult task.
Instructions
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The first step that a woman should do isaccept treason. It's pretty painful. Do not hide your suffering, cry, express, let the husband fully feel his guilt and repent. It's hard for men to live with a sense of guilt, mental torment, this is a good method of punishment.
2
You decided to forgive treason. This is a fairly long process. Do not force yourself to behave as if nothing happened. Give yourself as much time as you need. Psychologists advise to take an internal attitude, for example "I no longer feel pain", "I trust my husband".
3
It is useful at the time to get rid of the dailyContemplation of the traitor. You can live a little separately, but it's better to go on a short vacation, a trip. Changing the situation will be beneficial, and the spouse will have enough time to realize his guilt and find the way to your forgiveness.
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Do not dissolve in a relationship, in a man. In addition to the relationship, you are yourself, a separate established person. In addition to caring and worrying about the wife and family, you should have personal interests that also require your time and attention. Distract more at your hobbies, at work, it helps to cope with obsessive thoughts.
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If you have children, it's time to give themmore attention. Arrange a holiday, a trip to nature, with an adult child you can communicate, discuss his plans. Sometimes this is the best consolation for a wounded heart.
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A woman who is not self-confident,it is more difficult to survive betrayal. Love yourself. Update your hairstyle, wardrobe, go to self-improvement courses. Nothing so treats as the attention of the opposite sex, compliments, innocent flirting. It is necessary to feel attractive, feminine. More often, get out of the house, meet with friends.
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Tune in to a brighter future. The man stumbled, but this is not a reason to put a cross on it. Find out the reason for the betrayal, perhaps, there is also your fault, after a frank conversation, try to correct your errors. If the spouse repents, swears that he still loves you, he may well be given a second chance. Joint efforts can overcome any obstacle, treason will be forgotten, and family relations will only become stronger.
