How to understand that the guy is all over

How to understand that the guy is all over



Sometimes it is necessary to figure out whether relations have outlived their worth, or it is worth giving another chance to the young man. If you are at a crossroads, analyze the situation and listen to yourself.





Sometimes parting is inevitable


















Instructions





1


Understand that with the guy it's over, if youhave ceased to feel any warm feelings towards him. It happens that the girl continues to be next to the young man because of pity, out of habit or because of fear of being alone. On these motives it is impossible to build a happy love union. Therefore it is important to be honest with yourself and admit that you no longer feel love and interest in a man.





2


Analyze the behavior of a young man. If he has ceased to express his feelings to you in any way, does not show initiative in your relationship and does not seek to spend more time with you, perhaps he has cooled to you. In this case, do not impose. If you do not need a guy, he will leave sooner or later. Instead of a painful and long parting, it's better to put everything in order and call a young man to a frank conversation.





3


Evaluate the prospects of your meetings. If at the present time you want to build your future together with a kindred spirit, and your young man keeps completely different life goals in his head, maybe you should break up. Analyze how aligned your worldview, attitude to the family, plans for the future. If they are cardinally different, find the strength to say goodbye to a young man and look for a more suitable candidate for a knight.





4


See if your relationship is developing. Maybe they got stuck at some stage, and both of you have long been bored with this novel. In this case, you have to admit that you did not manage to make a successful union, and with the guy everything is over.





5


Think about whether your young manserious shortcomings with which you can not be reconciled. Do not turn a blind eye to the significant flaws in the habits or character of the man who is next to you. Understand that over time, the contradictions between you will only grow. If no compromise is possible, it is better not to torture yourself or the guy.





6


Listen to yourself to understand how much youcomfortable in this relationship. Analyze whether you feel happy or the novel brings you only grief, anxiety and disharmony. If you feel bad with a young man, it's better to part with it. Remember when you felt better: before or after the beginning of the novel. If you chose the first option, next to you is clearly not your man.





7


Appreciate how good you are with a young manin an intimate sense. Maybe in bed there is something to strive for, what to correct. If the guy does not agree to any changes, because everything suits him, maybe it's time to say goodbye to this egoist. Understand, intimate relationships play an important role in your personal life. Disharmony in this sphere can not be replaced either by sincere conversations, or by joint hobbies.