Tip 1: How to change your attitude towards men
Tip 1: How to change your attitude towards men
Every woman dreams of love, about serious,stable relations. We all want to be cared for, protected, protected and solved our problems. And even the most confident business woman, independent and independent, dreams of reciprocity, sincerity and support. But desires in personal relationships do not come true for everyone. Parting, the old grievances and betrayal prevented to start a new life, create a family and again trust the man.
Instructions
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The first step towards a happy life with a loved oneforgiveness must be a man. Forgive all the men who ever offended you (including your father). In no case do not keep evil on them, do not feed or grow a feeling of hatred within you. Because you accumulate negative emotions in your heart, it will only be worse for you.
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Get rid of feelings of dependence on men,which is near you. That is, you know how to say the word "no" at the right moment, if you do not like something or do not want to do it. Do not allow yourself to manipulate yourself, avoid excessive obedience. Be self-sufficient, and then a loved one will respect you and listen to your opinion.
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In relationships, one must always remember that a man anda woman thinks and perceives everything in completely different ways. For example, when you sincerely want to let him know that you do not like his scattered socks around the room, the man, in turn, understands this as a personal insult, and you just wanted order. Therefore, try to understand your chosen one, periodically putting yourself in his place.
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Do not tell your man that,how much you are unhappy with your short legs, imperfect waistline or big nose. Even if you are not ideal (which is quite normal for an earthly person), he should not at all guess about it. You must radiate inner confidence and superiority over other women. And then your man himself will soon believe in your exclusivity and will consider you ideal.
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Ask any man what quality he ismost appreciates in a woman. And you, most likely, will answer: cunning and mind. This is truly the greatest female gift that helps to manage, guide a man, and avoid unnecessary conflicts. Ability to be quiet in time, to soften the situation or say a sweet word - that's what you should learn for the sake of relationships.
Tip 2: How to stop believing men
At present, women often find themselvesdeceived by men and even subjected to ill-treatment. Unfortunately, excessive gullibility can lead to new cases of deception and unsuccessful connections. In this case, you need to try to change their attitude towards men.
Instructions
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Try not to yield to the first impression ofmen, when you first see it. Some of them have an attractive appearance and strong charm, which can "turn a head" to a woman. Do not hurry to succumb to the flirtation of a stronger-sex representative and do not go to the phase of kissing and intimacy until you understand his character, aspirations and attitude towards you.
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Check the words of the man. Some representatives of the stronger sex brag about their financial situation, various achievements, trying to surprise the woman and quickly arrange themselves. Try to ask questions. For example, if a man claims to occupy a high position, ask where exactly and how long he has been working. If he is embarrassed, starts to get confused in words, then, most likely, he deceives you.
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Keep calm and cool in communication withman. If you do not know the person very well, do not be too friendly and agree with all his words. Show that you have your own opinion on any matter, and you do not take seriously what he says.
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Know how to refuse if it is necessary. Some women are afraid to offend their companion and thereby worsen relations with him. If you fail to say "no" in time, then quickly again become a victim of deception. In this case, the man will think that there are no obstacles before him, and he can get anything from you. Especially be afraid of proposals to ride in a car with a stranger, go to his house. Also do not invite a man to yourselves, if you do not know him well.
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Do not tune yourself to the fact that the nextattitudes necessarily become at you the last, and before you - this is the man with whom you spend the rest of your life. Unnecessarily sensitive and romantic girls want to keep the man to the last and trust him in everything for the sake of it. Take your time and try to get to know the person as close as possible. Sometimes it takes weeks, or even months. If he treats you well and sincerely confesses his feelings, this can mean that his intentions are pure.
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Trust not words, but deeds. If a man really loves you, he must prove it, for example, fulfilling your cherished dream by doing one or several good deeds. At the same time he must obey your small whims, often make gifts, hold romantic meetings with you and, of course, do not stop accepting you the way you are.
Tip 3: How to get a man back with tantra
The cooled relations of a man and a woman today, toUnfortunately, there are more and more often. Usually men leave the family, disillusioned in their once beloved wife or meeting another lady of the heart. To bring her husband back, psychologists recommend trying a tantra return, which is a popular eastern teaching.
First of all, a woman should resurrect herselfpassion for his man, remembering what feelings she felt towards him during the period of falling in love. Then comes the next stage, at which she needs to realize that, since from the point of view of physiology men are more primitive creatures, the creation of an atmosphere of love in relationships depends only on it. In fact, Tantra is pursuing not only human, but also spiritual tasks with the help of which a woman is able to revive in a man his love and respect for her. It is also necessary to accept the idea that a man is not a specific person with a mass of shortcomings, but a divine essence embodying male energy.
As for the practical side,to keep a man or prolong the relationship, you do not have to make a fuss, but on the contrary - to show to the entangled partner maximum of care and love. This will be a kind of shock therapy for him - after all, men usually get reproaches and resentments, while tantra preaches forgiveness and tolerance, which softens the human (and especially masculine) heart. According to her rules, a woman should not only seduce a man, but also completely change his attitude towards him. As a result, the partner will see his partner in a completely new light and with a high probability will change his mind to seek happiness elsewhere. The control shot in this case will be joint tantric sex, during which a man and a woman merge not only physically, but also spiritually, opening each other new and unknown horizons.
Tip 4: How to change your life with the help of psychologists
Solve your problems with the help of a psychologistbecomes common in our society. The Russian man, at first ironically chuckling at the heroes of Western films, running to the representatives of this profession for every occasion, gradually begins to understand that discussing their problems with friends "over a glass of tea" is certainly a good way to restore mental equilibrium, but the help of professionals often is much more effective.
Instructions
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Before applying to a psychologist,yourself having a problem. Go to the session under the influence of the intimations of relatives - not the best option. To change something in your life, it is necessary for yourself to recognize the relevance of these changes. If you are sure that you are doing the right thing and your life is flowing the way you would like, you will not change, no matter what your spouse, friend or some of your relatives asked you to do about it. Only an internal need for change will become an effective motivation for revising one's life and making it different.
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Find your "own" psychologist, i.e. specialist with whom you want and will be able to work together on your problem. And the point here is not only in the experience and professionalism of a specialist, although this is also very important. Psychologists are also people. And, working with clients, they feel certain feelings towards them. It is important that you feel comfortable communicating with this person so that you feel trust in him - then the work will move faster and more efficiently. It is believed that a woman is easier to communicate with a male psychologist, and a man - with a female specialist, but this is not an obligatory condition. There are cases when the client is much more comfortable working with a representative of his sex
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Do not expect miracles from the psychologist. A true professional will not give advice, ready-made solutions and clear instructions on how to behave in a given situation. The work of a psychologist is to help a person understand himself, in his reactions to life situations and encourage him to find the best ways for him to solve problems. But the psychologist will not solve your problems for you. As well as not teach you how to change others according to your expectations. Changes will only affect you and your personality.
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Be frank. Even minor details of your past experience can help a specialist understand the motives of your actions, the regularity of your psychological reactions, and therefore, to give you more effective help. If you hide something that you are ashamed of, "it is not convenient", etc., this, on the contrary, can slow the process of therapy, because a psychologist can not figure out what exactly affects the strings of your soul. Treat this specialist as a doctor - after all, you do not come to mind to feel embarrassed at a surgeon's appointment
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Follow the recommendations you receive frompsychologist, do not be lazy to do exercises, keep records, etc., even if this at first seems to you senseless or insignificant. Remember that it is possible to change life for the better only through the painstaking and thoughtful work that you conduct yourself. A specialist only guides you along a path that you must go yourself, otherwise the desired changes will not come.
