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1. A woman should be late

Sveta and Lesha met on the Internet. It was Friday evening after work day. It so happened that the report for the chief of Light finished earlier. And flew from work for the first date with Lesha, wildly afraid to be late. As a result, galloped earlier for twenty minutes. Lesha was not there. Sveta was embarrassed and went to stroll through the nearest courtyards, for something suggested that it was unworthy to come before a gentleman and sit at a table, waiting for him, somehow for a decent girl. Half an hour later, Sveta returned to her proper place, but to avoid being trapped, cautiously, at a safe distance, scanned the meeting place. The view from around the corner opened a beautiful, summer cafe looked perfect. Lesha was not there yet. Cavalier was late for ten minutes. "Traffic jams," Sveta thought, and strengthened the position around the corner.

After fifteen minutes of waiting, Sveta got bored andbegan to consider the neighborhood, passers-by and neighboring trees. And then on the other side of the street Sveta noticed a young man who, because of the tree, was closely watching the same cafe and looking impatiently at his watch. Sveta was not the queen of logic, but her intuition told her that it was Lesha. And it became interesting for Sveta who has patience to burst. Ten minutes later, the gentleman from the tree noticeably grew sad. And ten minutes later he moved to the metro station. Sveta came home and talked with her friend for a long time on the topic: "What are they all ...". The meeting ended without beginning. But Lesha, she considered in detail. A decent guy, and behaved .... Ugh, in a word!

In the evening on Friday Lesha was asked to leave his jobahead of time. I was afraid to be late for a date with a new friend on the Internet. I wanted to look like five with a plus. He worked as a real estate agent and for a day so ran into that on a date in this form it was absolutely impossible. From the evening, Lesha waited a lot. Sveta seemed to him an interesting girl, cute, with a sense of humor and with a good figure. One was clouded by the joy of anticipating the meeting: a friend's story about his experience of dating a lady from the Internet. And the point was that when, after two weeks of correspondence, a friend came on a date, it turned out that the lady looks ten years older than her photos, and fifteen is heavier than kilograms than stated in the questionnaire. In addition, it turned out that the lady is burdened with her son from the first marriage, but not burdened with intelligence. Then the lady woke up wild appetite, she, without hesitation, ordered half of the menu, washed it down with beer, and left the remainder of the dinner with her in a bag ("For a dog," the lady explained). Lesha drove these thoughts away from himself, but his friend's experience gave no peace.

Arriving at the place of appointment on time, and without seeingthe girl Sveta, Lesch reasonably suggested that all the girls are late. And he decided, in order to avoid the embarrassment of a friend, to watch the street for the girls approaching him. He took a position behind the tree and turned into a continuous vision. Time passed, but there were no similar girls. Moreover, there were no girls who were alone in the cafe in splendid isolation. There were either couples or girlfriends coming in a flock, but clearly not the one they were waiting for. Lesch stood behind the tree for forty-five minutes. Light did not appear. And something prompted Lesha that she would not come. Lesche felt hurt. Why deceived? I could immediately say that it will not work. In the evening, after a beer, Lesha filled up his friend's piggy bank about the breakage on the first date. Then he removed Sveta from all his friends and appointed a date to Natasha. Also cute, with a sense of humor and figure nothing.

2. Blind Date

Long Maxim was persuaded by friends to meet withbeautiful in all respects Helen, friend of the girl of his friend. The arguments were given the most irony "Let's go on vacation together", "Summer cottage for two years is cheaper to rent," "What do you go by, it's time to find a normal girl." I got stories about Elena's virtues. She travels a lot, knows three languages, is sociable, she has a lot of friends and various acquaintances, she is a man with a wide outlook and original looks, and just "kissing all that airy." Maxim decided: "I'll go, I'll see, it will always be possible to say later that I did not like, but will be left behind."

Has come. Elena appeared almost immediately. With the naked eye it was evident that the girl was ready for the meeting seriously. She had everything in her arsenal: heels of centimeters twenty, of the same length, a skirt, a neckline shouted: "This woman can breastfeed future football team," the leader of the Redskins would envy the makeup. The image was completed by a train of spirits, the aroma of which could be appreciated by any visitor to a small restaurant. Elena was determined. Widely smiled. Gracefully bent down and kissed Maxim on the cheek. And, without thinking twice, she began to talk: "Hello, I'm Elena, and I imagined you such to myself." What are we going to drink? Let's start with wine, perhaps, or what kind of champagne for your acquaintance? how do you drink at all or? " Elena made an impression. A nearby table with guests from the friendly Caucasus was treated with unconcealed admiration. Continuation of the conversation did not wait. While waiting for the order, Maxim learned that Elena was twice married, but she saw some goats. The first husband left for another, and the second was a mumbler, a miser and a miser. He himself could not keep his beautiful wife. Elena did not tolerate the bad quality of Russian men and decided to try their luck abroad.

I went to Italy to a friend whom sheadvised a friend, who by correspondence became acquainted with his friend's brother. The Italian turned out to be that boor. I could not appreciate the breadth of the beautiful Elena's soul. A month later, I asked my new friend to vacate the living space. But Elena managed to learn a couple of phrases in Italian (this is knowledge of the first language). Asking her second husband to send money, Elena was unsuccessfully looking for an Italian husband. Then she was forced to return home, because the second husband - miser and miser - refused to finance the escapades of the ex-wife.

In Moscow Elena was lucky. I met a gallant and beautiful in all respects, the Turk-architect. He gave flowers and gifts, taught Elena the Turkish language (this is Helen's second language), drove to Suzdal, skated on a Ferris wheel and fed ice cream. He promised to introduce his mother, invited to Istanbul. He even hinted that he was ready to marry. Elena began to look into the wedding salons. But then luck turned away. The Turk disappeared. Absolutely. He did not even leave a note: "Do not wait for your dinner." Your Gopher. "

Elena was burning for a long time. There are two weeks. Then, pouring grief with friends in a nightclub, I saw him. More precisely, it was he who saw it. Not right away. Long looked closely. I saw almost before morning, when the people in the hall noticeably thinned out. His name was a beautiful "Ashot". This was a real passion. Ashot was generous, courageous and unusually sexy. Elena plunged into her new novel. She emerged a month later, after an unworthy and humiliating conversation with his wife Ashot.

Now Elena did not believe the men of foreignproduction. She wanted to support the domestic manufacturer. In her thirty-something she already knew exactly what she wanted from a man and from life. She finished the monologue with the phrase: "So, boy, I'm an old sick monkey, I know exactly what I want from life," and I extinguished the seventh cigarette. Maxim gulped down a glass of whiskey, Elena drained a glass of champagne in one gulp.

Have repeated. Maxim decided to enter into a dialogue, because at the beginning of the dinner he ordered foolishly hotter and for some reason a dessert (the same lady), and it was somehow awkward to leave. Especially since the stories of Helen enjoyed success at neighboring tables. And he did not dare to disappoint guests from the friendly Caucasus, did not allow upbringing. Maxim decided to clarify what is now beautiful Elena wants from men in general and from life in particular. After half an hour he regretted his rash question.

Elena, having lighted and chilled her throat with champagne,found a second wind. And, typing in the chest of air, began to talk about their expectations and dreams. Requests, according to Elena, she was more than modest and down to earth. It should be just a normal guy who earns and loves his job and wife. That he was a real man. That as behind the wall, that Elena could afford to be a woman. Sit at home, do yourself. To help materially relatives in Ukraine. It's hard for them. There's one mom and three sisters. The younger is about to give birth.

Of course, he must not only understand the broad andElena's complex soul, but also adore her as she is. And at the same time adore her friends: "I'll introduce you to them, they are such girls!", Adore and support her relatives. "Thank God, not previous husbands" - thought Maxim. Take regular rest in normal places. What kind of places, Maxim did not specify, suggested a sense of self-preservation. It is right to visit cultural events with Elena for spiritual and physical development. He must work for two. Must love, want and dream about children. Have a country house and a prestigious brand car. It is less to meet with friends. Okay, even with business partners, but not with these screaming freaks, football fans (the first husband was enough) and not with these incomprehensible fishermen-alcoholics (we know, swam, the second husband was a fisherman). Elena finished the monologue with the words: "For a start, I think it's enough, then I'll remember something else."

Maxim never at such a speed had dinner inrestaurant. He swallowed almost simultaneously hot and dessert. And to end the conversation, he asked a question that did not bother him: "Elena, I was told that you know three languages." Say, besides Italian and Turkish, what else do you own? " The answer was killed: "English, in vocational schools taught".

With a friend he then tried to meet in neutral territory. And he never went on blind dates again.

"Once in a lifetime," directed by John Carney

Easy touching film that createsa delightful summer mood, falling in love with himself and forcing again to believe in romance and lucky coincidences. The story of the two together is better and more fun, and if the whole company is going to, then you are saved, and in your life from now on there will be only bright days. Keira Knightley still looks like a fairy, and Mark Ruffalo still plays the guys who want to entrust his career, and then give both the heart and hand. Music in the film is not just a background, it's the main character, it inspires, heals, calls to believe, decide and risk to start all over again.

"Mixed", directed by Frank Korachi

"Mixed" - another gift from the magnificentactor duo Drew Barrymore and Adam Sandler. This is exactly what a summer family film should be, bright, colorful, full of sun, laughter and fun. In the plot of the film - an unsuccessful blind date, and after some necessary explanations on the plot we find ourselves in Africa, and further away from the screen it is simply impossible to tear ourselves away. Amazing African landscapes, wildlife safaris, an amazing game program for children and a luxurious bridal suite for a couple who still cherishes the bitter memory of an unsuccessful date. But gradually the heroes of Drew Barrymore and Adam Sandler pierced each other with benevolence, and then with sympathy, thanks to local color, amusing situations, and, most importantly, to children who very soon become "common." As a result, two incomplete families are transformed into one, full and happy.

"One meeting", director Lisa Azuelos

A subtle sincere picture of late love andchoice, lyrical and a bit sad. François Close and Sophie Marceau play older people who have preserved their youthful charm with life. Pierre and Elsa still believe in eternal love, they are still searching in the crowd for a look that will make the heart beat more often. Such people are called hopeless romantics, but when they meet, dreams become reality.

Instructions

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To find ways out, you need to know the reasons. There are two approaches to understanding the problem: materialistic - the doctrine of dominants, and the idealistic (religious). With the religious approach, it is more or less clear - the causes of thoughts are considered to be negative influence from outside. The best recipe is special protective prayers. This helps a lot. But if there is not enough faith, then a more universal materialistic approach must be applied. A dominant is a hotbed of excitement in the brain that pulls all available resources, all the forces. Therefore, a man who is overcome by difficult thoughts, looks tortured and tired. Distractions are usually very difficult - the dominant is not easy to let go of the victim. Obsessive Thoughts are very destructive and a person begins to narrowly look at the world and see only the problem, thereby cutting the way to escape from captivity Thoughts. Is the situation really hopeless? Not at all. First you need to find time for exercise - work or sport. And to set a task to improve labor or sports results. The more tedious your work physically is, the less likely it is that they will begin to prevail in the evening before going to sleep Thoughts. Perhaps at this stage the problem will be solved. And for health it is useful.

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If the load did not help, you need to realize that Thoughts it is almost impossible to subordinate yourself, you can not plan what you will think after 30 seconds. This direct control can not be controlled. So learn to look at Thoughts detached, they say, how funny it turns out. This approach will help find a dead end in the mind, especially if Thoughts fix on paper. Perhaps you are tormented by a decision that is difficult to accept. Then on paper, write down the possible consequences and what to do in the worst case.

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If the solution did not help, it is necessary to selectobsessive thoughts have energy. Force yourself to find something that will enthrall you completely. Perhaps it is worth searching the internet for information about a new hobby, appointing a blind date (if you are free), enroll in an unusual fitness class (such as dancing at the pole). New vivid impressions are the wedge that can be used to knock out the root of the problem. If nothing comes to mind - take a notebook, carry it with you and write down ideas about what would be interesting in principle. And then implement new ideas.

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Thought can not be suppressed, it can only be replaced. Thoughts feed on interest, and if they do not return to them, they just fade away. The main thing is not to be lazy intellectually. Then Thoughts will flow in the direction of creativity, and the head will be filled with a mass of new ideas.