How to persuade an alcoholic to be treated
How to persuade an alcoholic to be treated
A drinking person is a misfortune for the whole family. Often the wrong behavior of parents, friends and close relatives only leads to an aggravation of the situation. Acting confidently, harshly and ruthlessly - the welfare of the whole family depends on this.
Instructions
1
It is necessary to stop taking overresponsibility for the actions of a person who abuses alcohol. Alcoholics often take money from people they know, and their relatives consider it possible to pay these sums, regretting a sick person. Stop giving away other people's debts, justify yourself for unworthy behavior before friends and acquaintances, call your superiors and think up stories of non-existent diseases. The earlier you allow an alcoholic to realize the consequences of his actions, the sooner he will be able to feel personal responsibility for his life.
2
Do not press him. Shouts, threats, regular psychological pressure lead to the opposite result - a person begins to withdraw in himself, hide his feelings, lie and wriggle out. Talk calmly, judiciously and only when he is sober.
3
Clearly delineate the concepts of permissible andunacceptable actions. In the ultimatum form, indicate a list of actions that, if carried out in any state, will lead to a response from your side - withdrawal, deprivation of material support, summoning of security officers, etc. A person should realize that any action causes opposition. Act firmly and confidently, always keep your promises and stick to the chosen position.
4
Create the appropriate social circle. Call on the help of friends, relatives and friends, to the opinion of which the alcoholic listens. It is useful to arrange meetings and conversations with people who managed to overcome alcohol dependence - a positive experience is always encouraging.
5
Be ready to see a doctor. To have at hand the necessary contacts of clinics and individual doctors is very useful - you must organize everything quickly and promptly. Gather information about the methods of treatment and carefully consider everything - you need to choose an option acceptable from your point of view, consult a specialist in advance and enlist his support.
6
Try to calm down. Stop blaming yourself for what is happening or because you are not active enough - you can not make a person get treated until he wants to. Take care of yourself and your family - if necessary, take antidepressants, soothing drugs.
