How to form the right environment
How to form the right environment
A person is greatly influenced by people,with whom he often communicates. Subconsciously the individual absorbs both the bad and the good from the members of the circle of their communication. Therefore, it is necessary to pay attention to who is among your friends and good acquaintances.
Start with yourself
To form the right environment,you must first work on yourself. If you want to attract a certain type of people, you must match them. For example, if you want to communicate with successful, smart and wise individuals, you need to begin to show such qualities as dedication, self-reliance, flexibility, and develop your intellect to begin with. Learn to have others around you. Otherwise, despite all your dignity, people will not strive to communicate with you. Be friendly, cheerful, open, smiling, then other individuals will reach out to you. Think about what you might be interested in your new acquaintances. Develop your talents and abilities. Become a good storyteller, be attentive to others, learn the basics of the psychology of people. So it will be easier for you to win the sympathy of the individuals you need. In order to make a new friend, you need to find some points of contact with it. This can be a common hobby, similar views on life, the professional sphere, the way of life, the characteristics of the character and just the kinship of souls. The main thing is to find out what can draw you closer to the person you like, and develop this topic. It is possible that with the help of one person you will find many new friends, the whole company. After all, your good friend can lead you to your friends. Act Systematically
Sometimes chance acquaintance grows into a truefriendship. But if you are aimed at creating around yourself a right environment consisting of people of a certain type, you need to work on this by some algorithm, not relying solely on fate. Think about where you can meet like-minded people of your interest. You can often go to various interest clubs, go for personal growth training or professional courses. If you are a fan of a healthy lifestyle and want among your friends to have adherents of your views, go to a fitness club, to the pool, to martial arts classes and group classes. Take time to develop relationships between you and new friends. Do not be afraid to take the initiative and take the first step. Invite them to meet in an informal atmosphere. Think about where you would be interested to go all together. Take into account the habits and tastes of your new acquaintances, so as not to be mistaken in choosing a way of sharing pastimes.
