How to become popular
How to become popular
Popular people easily make friends and quicklybecome the soul of the company. They know how to like and do not remain alone, unless they themselves want to. Those who are not naturally given the opportunity to achieve popularity, can work on themselves and develop the necessary qualities.
Instructions
1
Be self-sufficient and appreciate yourself. This is not about pride and arrogance - they only repel people. One should simply combine self-satisfaction with a constant desire for self-improvement. Trying to please all people without exception is pointless: you not only will not achieve the goal, but also reduce your self-esteem. If you want to become popular, learn to love yourself and get used to the idea that you will have ill-wishers.
2
Radiate optimism. This attracts people, and the merry people will see in you "their boyfriend", and pessimists - a person who can solve problems and help in any situation. Wit and charming smile conquer. But be careful and do not become a jester who himself poses as a laughing stock. Strengthen your sense of humor and healthy optimism with self-confidence.
3
Be interesting. People can be attracted by your knowledge, nature, worldview, etc., so the line of behavior should be chosen depending on the preferences of your "target audience". Your opinion should be valuable and interesting, like your advice. Learn to maintain a conversation, look for an approach to every person with whom you communicate, and you will be drawn. Often go to the public, so that you will not be forgotten.
4
Correctly submit yourself. While no one knows how interesting and wonderful you are, it will not be possible to achieve popularity. Be brave, get to know and communicate with people, do not be afraid to offer your help when necessary, demonstrate your talents. The main thing - radiate confidence and know that you are worthy of the love and respect of others.
5
Stay yourself. Versatility annoys and repels - the more naturally you will be, the better. No need to try to please people with whom you have nothing in common, and even more so for those who are unpleasant to you. Learn to choose the right environment and find people with similar interests and preferences, so you do not have to constantly pretend and play someone else's role.
