Tip 1: How to stop watching porn
Tip 1: How to stop watching porn
In sporadic viewing of pornographicPictures, videos and movies there is nothing abnormal. Since the time of the Inquisition and the house-building, much has changed, and today the viewing of "obscenities", if this, of course, is not real rape or no porn with minors, does not cause in the society categorical rejection. However, it happens that pornography supersedes reality, and a person wants to change, but can not because of mental dependence.
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With rare exceptions, watching pornaccompanied by masturbation. And although from onanism, in spite of grandmother's stories, people do not get blind, excessive interest in pornography and frequent masturbation are considered a conditional pathology - pornophilia. If you feel that you no longer receive satisfaction in sex or can not engage in full-fledged sex without pornography, and sometimes do not even notice the desire to have sex with a real partner, it's time to tie with porn. First, you have an obvious frustration of desire and all the signs of depression, and secondly, both have the property of progressing, complicating life.
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It is best to contact a psychologist immediately (withprovided that you prefer ordinary pornography where adult people have sex with adults in arbitrary combinations, rather than looking under the cover of anonymizers for requests such as "snaff", "real rape" or "zooskool"; In such cases only a psychiatrist will help). But first you should try to understand and cope with bad predilection on your own. Nevertheless, the conclusions drawn by one's own mind are the most reliable conclusions.
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Porn and masturbation is the stimulation of the production"A hormone of happiness" (dopamine), which means actual drug addiction. Sex in a sense, too, can be called a drug, but even when having sex with a prostitute, there is communication, the exchange of skills and emotions. With onanism, there can be no talk of any communication component. Therefore, we must simultaneously stop porn watching / masturbation and start communicating with living people. Not necessarily for sex. For the sake of preserving oneself as a person. The fact that pornophilia, as well as drug addiction, has its phases: the search for a dose, the actual "injection", a short period of buzz and a long period of depressed and depressed mood in search of a new, increased dose. Forbid yourself to masturbate and, in order not to be tempted, erase your porn archive, remove all links to porn sites from the bookmarks in your browser, unsubscribe from thematic pages on social networks, or better put the "parental control" of the Internet on the computer, set the unlock password as random a character set and do not save it anywhere.
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The mind, accustomed to pornostimulation, mustto go through "withdrawal" (withdrawal). The best way to help yourself overcome it is to take the freed up time by sport, work or creativity: in sports halls, studios, circles, coworkings, in a company of unfamiliar people, it's easier to keep yourself. Mass events are also suitable, if after their visit you can immediately go to bed without including a computer. Not bad help sleeping pills and sedatives (strictly on the advice of a doctor!): Less excitement, fewer "pauses". You can temporarily lodge at home a non-fond of walking a friend-freelancer or a friend-householder of strict morals. Take a bath, not to give binge to fantasies, but a contrast shower. To get carried away by the attainment of somehow a new goal. The main thing is to occupy yourself with a useful business, switch thoughts and tire your body, so that in the rare moments of relaxation at hand there is not even a hand. By the way, fans of porn with experience produces a characteristic difference in the development of the shoulder-ulnar musculature. Think about whether you should open yourself so frankly?
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Fans of pornography often experience problems withSexual realization. Confessing yourself to this, try to talk with a regular sexual partner about introducing diversity into the intimate life (suddenly your fantasies coincide?), And in the absence of such - try to find it. Not on the Internet! On the street, in a cafe, at work ... The very process of searching is already a big waste of time and effort, previously given to self-gratification. Remember the main thing: the less pornography in your life - the more complete, diverse, interesting life.
Tip 2: Why do men watch porn
Recognizing that the elect watches porn films,Many women make scandals, resent, feel jealous, and even completely break up relations with a partner. A little to the head comes to find out the reasons why men like to watch porn.
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Men are pleased to look atNaked female bodies. A beautiful female body, naked and uninhibitedly moving, attracts male interest. After all, as is known, the representatives of the stronger sex like eyes. Beautiful bodies, daring poses, frank groans of intimate scenes of the film help a man relax and have fun, emotional and physical relaxation.
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Men are polygamous in nature. Despite this statement, some of them have been faithful to their only partner for life. Still, for a strong relationship, it is necessary to diversify from time to time an intimate life, since even a very beautiful and sexually experienced woman can become ordinary if a man sees her constantly, if she is always open and accessible to him. Watching porn movies, faithful husbands can for a while present themselves in bed with other women, which in fact is not treason, but satisfies the male essence and the desire to change partners.
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Men are excited by porn films.Some men are difficult to get excited, especially if they are aged or live with a permanent partner. Pornfilms help to easily achieve a state of strong arousal, which favorably affects the real sex life.
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Men are males by nature.Even the most delicate and shy of them in the depths of their hearts want to have power over women, including sexual ones. Almost all men think about sex every day. Many also have a strong erotic fantasy, which they are not always ready to voice partner in bed. With the help of watching porn, men seem to embody in reality their secret fantasies, in which they can be brutal and sexual seducers.
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Men want to diversify sex.Some men are looking for pornographic scenarios for their love affairs. In this, a woman can participate, indicating to her beloved that she would like to try sex. Joint viewing of films for adults sometimes brings the necessary "pepper" to the intimate relationships of couples with many years of intimate life experience.
Tip 3: How to block porn sites
The network today permeates virtually every spherehuman life, affecting the brain of the individual and shaping the character, behavior, habits. But in the virtual world, as in the real world, sometimes, not everyone will be happy to meet. On the Internet, this is something you can call pornography. How to protect your children and yourself including, protecting from eroticism and pornographic content?
Ways to block porn content
You can block pornography in two ways: Through your computer (local machine) or through a browser using an account. The first method often involves the installation of various kinds of antivirus, firewall and parental control systems. All these programs work on the principle of filtering: they contain in advance a database of sites containing prohibited content, and it is automatically updated every day. Thus, in case a user accidentally or specially moves to the corresponding resource, the program simply blocks access to this resource (it does not allow you to view the content of the site).Often these programs are very effective,Protecting not only from erotic and pornographic content, but also from other materials that are not very suitable for young children (pedophilia, zoophilia, suicidal themes, etc.).The most popular shortcoming of such programsis their transparency for the user: a computer-capable child can safely disable such a program, either by going to the tray and clicking on the corresponding icon, or by "killing" the corresponding process through the OS task manager.
Blocking pornographic content through a browser
In addition to the use of filter programs, whichAre installed on the local machine, you can block unwanted content by using various kinds of internal filters of the browser itself. Filters of this kind are often extensions or applications that you can customize at your discretion.In addition to sites, there is often a needBlock pop-up ads, which can also contain porn content. Over the past two years, the leader in this has become the AdBlock program, which is available for free download.I work often as efficiently asLocal programs, but sometimes slow down the browser itself, although many of them use a script similar to normal programs - they just add addresses of unwanted resources to the hosts file, thereby blocking access to them.
Tip 4: What is the difference between sporellegal and metrosexuals
Today metrosexuality comes to naught, butA new trend of modern representatives of the stronger sex is controversial. What does this term mean, who are the disputed sex, what is their difference from metrosexuals?
About metrosexuality began for the first time in1994. This term characterized young men living in megacities, and spending a lot of time and money on appearance. Metrosexuals came to replace the dandies, although they differed from them, since they were not representatives of the aristocracy or elite minority. For such men, it became characteristic to spend in the bathroom no less time than necessary for the fair sex. They began to spend a lot of money not only on clothes, but also on various cosmetics, including hair care products and skin care products. In the hands of metrosexuals, it was often possible to meet glossy publications, from which they learned about trends from the world of fashion, cars, sex, gadgets, music and fashion films.
Of course, metrosexuals can be found andtoday, but increasingly they are replaced by sporadic spouses, whose efforts are not aimed at creating an ideal image in general, but for creating a perfect body with pumped muscles, tattoos, piercings, chic hairstyles and well-groomed beards. Many experts characterize disputed sexuality as a combination of sports, porn and sex, and representatives of this trend focus on sex. They tend to realize their ambitions through the visual component, flaunting what was previously only available to their girlfriends, brides or wives. The manifestation of such narcissism can be seen not by endless selfies, constantly laid out in social networks in anticipation of likes or any other means of encouragement. If before metrosexuals could boast of their appearance, going out into the world, then for controversial people enough Internet is enough to be in the spotlight.
Among the controversial people, even can be identified new icons, including pornographic actors and many athletes, for example, Cristiano Ronaldo, David Beckham or Tom Evans.