How to love your loneliness?
How to love your loneliness?
You can be absolutely alone, even ifyou are in a crowd of people or surrounded by relatives and friends. But loneliness by different people can be perceived differently. Some it restricts, drives into sadness, brings discomfort, while others stop it in the frenzied rhythm of a big city and allows one to realize himself as an integral person, to remember himself about the present, about his goals, dreams and desires.
Instructions
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Many great people: writers, artists, scientists - valued loneliness as the most important resource of their creative process and development. Accepting one's loneliness makes a person stop being passive, forcing to become decisive, to take responsibility for one's own life, comes freedom of creativity. Often loneliness arises in order that you have the desire to develop and to change yourself for the better.
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In the process of loneliness,dependence, especially subordination from relatives, friends. It is important to learn how to communicate with yourself, hear and listen to your inner voice. Inability and unwillingness to listen to oneself, boredom from communicating with oneself, often testifies to the loss of individuality. And if I'm bored with myself, and I'm an unwanted interlocutor for myself, will it be interesting to others?
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One who learns to feel loneliness asa gift of fate and friends and partner will choose not because he alone is bored, lonely and bad, but because he really loves his chosen one in such a way that he will want to let him into his inner world. After all, how often, choosing a couple, just not to be alone, we are wrong. And having learned to be alone with your thoughts and feelings, we are prepared to completely be close to someone. And then the delight of intimacy, and not the fear of loneliness, keeps us together.
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It is important to feel loneliness not as punishment, but aspersonal freedom and sincerely enjoying his independence. Live a full life, rejoice at every moment, see before yourself new opportunities, strive to know yourself and the world around you.
