Tip 1: How to behave in the US
Tip 1: How to behave in the US
If you are going to visit or visit USA for a tour, try to find outa little more about this country, its laws, traditions and customs of the local population. Of course, in absentia you do not get a full picture of a country that is unfamiliar to you. But the information will never hinder you, but rather will help you to establish friendly relations with people and protect you from some unpleasant situations.
Instructions
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Before going to USA open the official website of the Customs Service of this country.country and get acquainted with the list of those things and products that are not recommended to import or their importation is limited. So you will relieve yourself of the hassle when crossing the border.
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In any situation, try to behave simply andnaturally. Relax your face, do not frown and smile more often - in this country it's so customary. When you say hello to people, remember that Americans prefer to shake hands and do not like kissing on the cheek. But at the same time show more enthusiasm and be more impulsive. If you are too calm and withdrawn, it can be perceived as unfriendly.
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Despite the fact that Americans - people are open and friendly, they do not ordinarily ask their interlocutor personal questions, and also spread about any problems, troubles and illnesses.
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Keep in mind that in different states USA different laws, includingmorality. Some women, for example, may perceive flirting or attempted courtship as molestation, and in this case they have the right to sue you. Therefore, it is better not to go beyond certain limits if you are not sure that you are correctly understood.
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AT USA, like in many other countries, do not go toguests without an invitation. If you are invited, agree in advance the time of your visit. And try not to be late. This also applies to business visits (in this case it is generally better to come earlier and wait a little). As a gift, you can bring flowers, a bottle of wine or a souvenir from the country from which you arrived.
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Do not forget that USA created by people from different countries, peopledifferent nationalities, culture, color and creed. Therefore, in your conversations and behavior, no one should discern even a hint of racism, intolerance or negative attitude towards any religion.
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If you want something to prompt you,helped to find the right address, etc., do not be shy of poor knowledge of English. Americans are patient and very polite, and will not leave until they understand and support you.
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Despite the fact that in every American statetheir laws, and they are largely different, the attitude to smoking and drinking alcohol is about the same everywhere. Smoking, as well as alcohol, should be taken only in specially designated places. If you decide to "pamper" a beer in the park, wrap the bottle in an opaque package. For violation of public order, you may face a significant fine. You can also be fined for improper waste disposal. In this country, it is envisaged to use different urns for each type of garbage (for paper, glass, plastic, food waste, etc.).
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Always try to carry an identification card with youperson (in your case this is a passport). This is always asked about in case of any problems. The rules of personal security in this country are the same as in others: beware of thieves and pickpockets and do not wander in unfamiliar dubious places without the accompaniment of local residents. And if you get into an unpleasant situation or just get lost, do not be afraid to turn to the police. They always help.
Tip 2: How to behave in America
When traveling to the United States, it is necessary to behave in a friendly and friendly manner, and also observe a number of rules, the violation of which can lead to conflict or criminal liability.
Instructions
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See the rules of carrying baggage and handput in the US before the trip. A list of prohibited products, medicines, printed materials, hazardous substances can be found on the official website of the US Customs Service.
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Read the rules on smoking anddrinking alcoholic beverages in the state where you are going to go. Keep in mind that they are different, although almost everywhere you can not smoke in public places. A single rule for all states is a ban on the sale of alcohol to a person under the age of 21.
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Smile to everyone. Americans themselves smile constantly, it is considered indecent to show a bad mood.
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Greet both men and women with a handshake. Kisses on the cheeks are appropriate only when friends meet. Also it is not recommended to kiss ladies hands.
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Behave with the opposite sex withindecency. It is not recommended to flirt with women, because for an imprudent gesture or a frank look at you can sue. As for flirting and coquetry with men, your signals can be taken as a frank call to action, but not for your way of communication.
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Do not ask purely personal questions to the interlocutor. It is not customary to ask a woman about pregnancy, her family status. Accordingly, do not spread about their illnesses, problems and troubles.
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Remember that not the last place in the systemnational security and freedom. Therefore, do not create situations that can be perceived as a threat to someone's life or health, in general, do not "play terrorists".
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Try to avoid neighborhoods of ethnic groups in large cities, most likely dialogue will lead to conflict.
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Do not state your opinion about the race of someone. Communicate with a person as an equal. Discrimination on the basis of race is punishable by law.
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Do not express negative attitude to religion, even if the interlocutor does not show religiousness.
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"Observe the distance." In queues, in public transport, in shops and other places of congestion of people, try not to approach too close to anyone.
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Do not be late for a meeting. Americans more than others value their time and try not to linger.
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Before you pay someone a visit, check the timevisits. Do not come to visit without an invitation. As a gift, you can bring flowers, wine or a souvenir from the country of residence. Do not make expensive gifts.
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The rules of behavior at the table in the US as a whole are in line with the European ones. The only exception is the ability to use the fork with your right hand.
Tip 3: How to get a visa in the US
Get a visa to the US citizens of Russia is not so muchdifficult, provided that you are well prepared in advance. We need to collect some documents, as well as think over the answers to questions that are usually asked by the visa officer. To obtain a visa in the United States, the passage of a personal interview is mandatory.
You will need
- - international passport;
- - old passports if they have visas of the USA, Canada, the United Kingdom or the Schengen countries;
- - confirmation that you filled in a questionnaire form DS-160;
- confirmation of payment of visa fee;
- - the photo;
- - certificate from work or study;
- - an extract from the bank account;
- - receipt for payment of the consular fee;
- - Sponsorship letter (if your money is not enough);
- - documents for possession of property (car, real estate, securities, etc.);
- - certificate of marriage or the presence of children;
- - confirmation of the purpose of the trip.
Instructions
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Prepare the complete package of documents. They may not be needed, but the visa officer has the right to request any of these papers at the interview, and it is better if they have you. These are various references from work, financial guarantees, invitations from the United States, confirmation of hotel reservations or airline tickets, and so on.
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Start collecting documents from the questionnaire onsite of the US Migration Service. Filling is in English, it takes 20 minutes. If you do not have time, you can save the questionnaire, and then go back to editing it. At the time of filling in the questionnaire, you need to attach a photo file. At the end of filling it will be necessary to enter again the number of your passport and send the application for consideration. At the same time, a confirmation file is completed. You need to print it and take it with you.
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Pay the consular fee. Details of payment and specific places where you can pay a visa in your region is best viewed on the website of the US Migration Service or found at the place of application. Payment for the visa fee is valid for one year, during this time it is necessary to appear for an interview at the consulate. After 2 working days after payment, you will be able to register for a visit, during the recording you need to specify the payment identification number.
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At the interview you will need to pass the biometricdata and communicate with the visa officer. You need to have a complete package of documents. Be ready to answer the following questions of the officer: - what is your purpose for the visit - how long do you plan to stay in the US - do you have a family and children - do you have friends or relatives in the US - what do you do in the country of permanent residence.
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In advance, think over the answers to all these questions. At the interview, do not be nervous, do not play with small items, try to behave as calmly as possible. Do not take the initiative until you are asked, do not also tense smile or tell unnecessary details.
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If the interview is in English,and you do not understand something, do not hesitate to ask again or say so. Russian-speaking staff of the consulate can always help you, and if the purpose of the trip is tourism, ignorance of the language in perfection will not be a minus. However, if you are going to study, then weak English will put your candidacy in serious doubt.
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Usually the decision to issue a visa is communicated to the candidateimmediately after the interview. If this does not happen, the information can be obtained on the site or by calling the call center. The passport is returned through the courier service of Pony Express. You do not need to pay extra.
Tip 4: How to get rid of love addiction
Love addiction is a disease that in the USare treated in groups that work on the same principle as the society of anonymous alcoholics. If you do not live in the US, then the problem will have to cope on your own.
Instructions
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Do not even think about your loved one. If passion is destructive, action must be taken. Be prepared for the fact that a completely painless break in the relationship will not pass. The main task - to reduce mental trauma to a minimum. To do this, one should translate emotions into a rational sphere and learn how to control them. Mentally shut off the wall from the object of his unhappy love. You are a strong and independent person who can overcome yourself.
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In order for a relationship to become complete,express everything that you think about him - on paper, or verbally. Between you there should not be any omissions. If this is not possible, do the following: put a chair and imagine that it sits your love. Speak out how he tortured you, how stale and unscrupulous he is. And then forgive him and forget forever.
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You can try to back it up in writingcontract with itself. Among other things, in the contract, write down the period during which you allow yourself to be sad. Spend this time with benefit - manage your emotions. In the contract, you can also designate an incentive prize, which you can count upon expiration of the term, if the terms of the contract (stop loving and forgetting) will be met. Such a prize can be new shoes, for example, or a box of chocolates.
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It happens that when you have already made a decision and are leadingstruggle with feelings, the beloved "wakes up": he calls, he offers to start all over again. Do not be fooled! By his act, you hurt his pride, and he tries to restore the status quo.
